I'm tired of fightin for something that just seems as if is nothing. I mean you should never give up, but theres always a point. A point we reach in our lives that even though we ignore we know what it means. And what has a beginning must always have an end?
2007-09-17 15:52:42 · 22 answers · asked by MoM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HUH???
Pick / choose your battles.
It is what it is!
2007-09-17 15:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you "fighting" for something you know is unattainable? If you KNOW you're trying for something that's out of "reach", why punish yourself needlessly. You didn't really give too much to "work" with, but yes, there is a point where you do have to give up IF you know there's no possible way of it happening. You just set other sites & aim for them, but make sure you're not setting yourself up again for failure. Do something you KNOW you can achieve even if it does take a little work. At least you KNOW you'll have a happy contended ending. Usually most things that have beginnings have some kind of a "closure". You might choose to call it an "end", but you also can look at it as "closing it" instead...
2007-09-17 23:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your talking about a relationship...and if you are then although it is good to have perserverence, compassion, understanding, and endurance in relationships.. there HAS to be some boundaries. Listen to and tune into your gut and intuitions.. if something inside you is telling you to walk away.. then you really should listen. If you feel like your fighting for something so unbelievably hard.. then this relationship is
one- sided and your partner doesn't care enough to fight as much as you do.. good luck hunn and if I completely interpreted this Q wrong, I'm sorry.. but you'll find what your lookin for, look deep and the answer will be there.
2007-09-17 23:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is if your up to your a** in alligators, it is not time to figure out how to drain the swamp. Do and fight for what is important. Ignore what you can't change. Remember the less stress in life makes life a lot more enjoyable. Take a step back and admire the view.
2007-09-17 22:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey... you must know when to give up. Life is always about alpha and omega... but not just for one and the same thing. When something is not within reach eventhough how much you fight for it, then maybe it's not just meant to be... start another one, maybe this time you'll come out the victor
2007-09-17 23:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by luv.my.island 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!,
What were you smokin when you asked that ? No wonder you have problems.
Get straight and ask your question again. Sounds like you're totally out of it.
Doesn't even warrant an answer.
Get some professional help
2007-09-17 23:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, IM me, and I'll talk to you. Your question depends on the situation you are in. In general, try to work things out, but giving everything up isn't the answer. Find out why your fighting, and if it's really worth it.
Best of luck.
2007-09-17 23:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what you are talking about - you weren't very clear but it seems like you already know the answer. If it seems like its "nothing" then its probably not worth wasting anymore of you time on!
2007-09-17 23:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theire is a point in life that you give up because you get tired of fighting for it and nothing happens
2007-09-17 22:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY MOM! MOTHER OF 4 HEAR! NOT SURE I UNDERSTAND QUESTION, BUT IF YOU ARE UNHAPPY AND THAT WHAT I GET. STOP WORKING ON THE PROBLEM, OR FIGHTING WITH ANY ONE!!!! LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST AND THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO. TRUST ME I KNOW!!!! IT WAS THE HARDEST LESSON I EVER LEARNED. BUT MY LIFE IS BETTER FOR IT BECAUSE I WILL NOT TOLERATE ANY ONE HURTING ME VERBALY OR OTHER WISE. BEST WISHES TO YOU!!! HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON!
2007-09-17 23:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by mother of 4! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to quit when you're the only one putting all the effort, then you know it's not Worth it
2007-09-17 23:05:47 · answer #11 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋