we want to have sex but i dont want to use a condom bc it wnt b as special to her. how do i make sure she doesnt get pregnant without the use of pills
2007-09-17 15:51:34 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you can't you have to use protection in order to avoid getting her pregnant
2007-09-17 16:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Deana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant. There is no way of making sure she will not get pregnant without the use of pills or a condom. And remember, if either of you have had unprotected sex before then a condom should be used to prevent STD's. Using a condom wont make it any less special for her, in fact she will probably be pleased that you are putting her safety first and trying to be sensible in ensuring that you dont end up with an unwanted pregnancy,
2007-09-18 08:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar-Qube 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who told you that but if you care fore her you will keep a condom on at all times especially if she isn't on the pill. There is no other way really to prevent pregnancy. She can still get pregnant even if you don't ejaculate inside her! Go to the store and look through the condom selection. There are all sorts of condoms that are designed to make sex feel good and it will make her feel better the next day so that she doesn't have to worry about a baby.
2007-09-17 15:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by starfire978 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... If she met you online and was inclined to have a one night time stand with you, than i'm sure you weren't the one one she was once/is napping with. I simply learned that i'm pregnant after taking the Plan B- One Step, so it may well happen. It's not 100% amazing. Did you observe that the condom was once broken whilst you took it off?? You should definately maintain the baby even though she is unable to seek child support. ...However definately get a paternity scan.
2016-08-04 16:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only special if you show consideration for your girlfriend's health - STD's are no joke. And an unexpected pregnancy is something that you will have to pay for until the baby is at least 18 years old - are you both prepared for that? If not - then wear a condom! It's the smartest thing to do. Remember: "It's not a gift unless it's wrapped!" :-)
2007-09-17 16:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, you have to use a condom. It'll still be special & you'll be protecting both of you from pregnancy & disease. Don't ever believe a girl when she tells you she's on the pill. Girls lie so that guys will get them pregnant because they want babies &/or that's their way of trying to keep the guy. I know, I've seen it happen. Don't be a fool, always wear a condom.
2007-09-17 15:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by tanner 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Um....why wouldnt it be as special to her? I think your thinking more about yourself. If you are serious about having sex, you should be seriously prepared for what comes along with it, which can very likely include babies if you dont use protection. Its definitely not going to be very special to either of you when she shows you the positive pregnancy test. So if your really serious about not being a daddy, you should be using pills AND a condom.
2007-09-17 16:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If she is not taking the pill or on any other birthcontrol, the chance of pregnancy is very high.. Even if you use a condom, they do break and not always work. If neither of you is willing or responsible to prevent a pregnancy, then you don't need to be having sex.
Think of your life right now with a child. Are you ready???
2007-09-17 16:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by lynda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You abstain from sex. Either you use a condom or some other form of birth control or don't have sex at all. Are you sure you are ready for this? A mature couple would take precautions. I think you should wait and discuss this a little further before you engage in any sexual activity.
2007-09-17 16:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by llselva4 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you are Married my friend!!!!!!!!!!! Can't people see if we just obeyed God's commandment of chastity we would not suffer the consequences. How many children are born to single parents? How many children are born into broken homes? All because we cannot say no to our physical desires. If you cannot handle the babies, do not practice creating them! What girl in their right mind, who is not ready for a child, refuses to let her guy use a condom. And Thank you to the answer about the future spouses of these kids!!! It could never be more special than that. Do you want to rob her or yourself of that?
2007-09-17 16:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by noed 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
hmmm... if she met you online and become prepared to have a one evening stand with you, than i'm valuable you weren't the only one she become/is napping with. I basically found out that i'm pregnant after taking the Plan B- One Step, so it could ensue. it is no longer a hundred% powerful. Did you spot that the condom become broken once you took it off?? you are able to definately safeguard the infant whether she isn't able to look for infant help. ...yet definately get a paternity attempt.
2016-10-20 01:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by christler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋