I've never even HUGGED a guy at school...
I don't want people to think I'm like...weird...idk...
So...normal? Or no?
2007-09-17 15:44:08 · 41 answers · asked by updo 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's normal. Don't feel pressured by the ones around you to get a boyfriend. A lot of people don't have great first boyfriends. The more you wait to find someone special you'll really like, the better the chance you'll have. A lot of girls I know kiss the guy they're going out with 'just because.' You should make your kisses special, not hand them out like cookies at a charity event.
2007-09-17 15:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Milly 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 16 anbd I've never had a bf and I know exactly what you mean. I used to feel that way all the time. But look at it this way almost 98% of High school relationships fail. Then you're going to go thrrough those depressing stages where you cry all night and think about where you went wrong etc. I have too much going on in my life to be depressed over a relationship. Plus teenage boys are too immature and horny [I know its harsh but true]. As for hugging a boy at school I think its ridiculous because its JUST to show off...In the next few weeks they probably won't even be together. Teenage relationships are just a bad thing. There are way more negative things about it than positive. So anyway don't feel bad and good luck
2007-09-17 15:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Powerpuff [thinks ur cute] 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not weird! A ton of people who are 15 aren't dating. You don't have to date a guy just because everyone else is. Rushing into a relationship usually creates a very fragile bond, and will most end up in a failure. Such things take time, and will happen when they happen.
I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either. I figure that I have lots of time. I'm still young. I'm not even allowed to date until I'm eighteen, but even with that restriction, I'm still in no rush to get a boyfriend. I just don't need that kind of stress right now.
A relationship adds another dimension of stress. It would be hard to juggle schoolwork and a boyfriend and other friends at the same time, especially in high school where grades really count. You might have to decided between friends and your boyfriend. It might get hectic and stressful.
I'm single and I'm lovin' the single life. I have a lot more time for family and friends and schoolwork. I'm under far less stress without a boyfriend. We're still young, my friend, and we have our whole lives ahead of us!
Peace!
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[Edit] Hey, above poster named 'watever', why are you calling me names? That's incredibly rude and I don't appreciate it. I find that comment unneccesary and offensive. I'm AGREEING with your opinion, gosh darn it. I have never done anything to you! In fact, I have no idea who you are!
If someone has an opinion that coincides with your own, you don't swear at them!
2007-09-17 15:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by [nameless~light] 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Im soon to be 15 never had a bf and only got hugged by one guy on the last day and he hugged everyone lol.
2007-09-20 15:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your situation but it is still early and you still young. Plenty of time. Don't rush it. There are many a young girl that would up pregnant or deeply hurt in other ways, from rushing for hugs or boy friend.
When it is time it will happen. And NO YOU are NOT weird. Just marching to a different drum and/or a different pace/beat.
2007-09-17 15:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by GERALD S. MCSEE 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're normal! I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend! You'll get one when the time is right! Never, ever rush into a relationship! Try to be friends first before you take it to the next level! Good luck to ya!
2007-09-17 15:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by Oh, it's like that? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about having a boyfriend - you are only 15 - I mean, seriously, you don't need a boyfriend until you are ready to talk about getting married & stuff. I got my first & ONLY boyfriend when I was 18 years old & I was his only girlfriend & we are going to get married. You & your future husband will be much more greatful if you just wait until you are actually ready to have one - just wait - you don' have to hug guys so people won't think you are weird.
It's fine - just tell them you aren't ready yet.
My sister is 20 and she just got her first boyfriend this year.
Don't worry about what other people think of you - you should feel good about yourself no matter what.
The right guy will come to you in the right time if you just wait for him!
Good luck!
xx
2007-09-17 15:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by *Casey * 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok well im 16 and never had a REAL b/f, just little ones in middle school. I have however hugged LOTS of guys (and a bit more) so idk if that is normal or not. Dont worry somebody is out there for you!
2007-09-17 15:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by southern belle <3 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im 15 and ive never had a bf. Yes, its normal.
but why would people think youre weird if you hugged a guy at school? ...
2007-09-17 15:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by : ] 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no big deal at all. there's another guy around every corner & there always will be. focus on school & your friends and family, these are the things that matter most. nobody will think you're weird and it will happen when it's right. don't waste your time on the wrong guy just to get experience.
2007-09-17 15:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pasha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋