I found out that This guy that I like likes me.I am unsure if I need to go up to him now or if i need to let him make the first move.Do you think I need to let him talk to me (unlike what he is doing now) or if I should go up to him and talk to him.
Any ideas?
2007-09-17 15:01:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The way I found out about him liking me was that his younger bro (who is a devil) snuck into his room one night and read his jornal that had somethink about him liking me.Ok,now what?
2007-09-17 16:20:49 · update #1
Sit on his hard on.
2007-09-17 15:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think any of the answers above are taking you very seriously.
Unfortunately, neither do I.
Just go and talk to him, smile, say something stupid that will embarrass you but will be funny in 6 months time. Spill coffee over him on your first date and have too much alcohol and end the night throwing your guts up in the back of his car.
Alternatively, build a time machine and travel into the past and visit him in the night. Pretend to be a ghost and tell him to ask you out in the future or he will be haunted for the rest of his life by cats in leather straps.
2007-09-17 15:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely 100% totally positively sure he likes you, just go up to him and talk about the weather. He will know it's not about the weather, and he will say something equally irrelevant. Then offer him a stick of gum. If he politely refuses, that's okay. Ask him what's his favourite candy. From here on, you're home-free. Whatever you do, never-never-never say outright that you like him. (I'd be giving him the same advice if he had asked.) It's totally possible to thoroughly enjoy liking someone without telling them. If he says he likes you, surrender to your hormones and let them take over your whole life. Go get him, girl!
2007-09-17 16:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him feelers that you like him..eg.. Every time you see him, give your sweetest smile, when you see him in a distance, wave to him as much as you could, find out his likes and dislikes, the place where he hangs out and who his friends are. Give him a lot of clues that you like him but I discourage advising doing the first move especially for young girls..Some guys run away when girls are showing aggressiveness in a relationship.
2007-09-17 15:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least talk to him, be casual you don't want to make him uneasy (it sounds like he might be shy). If you are really feeling bold ask if he wants to get lunch or dinner some time. By approaching him it will show your confident, which is always a good quality to have, but don't be over confident!
2007-09-17 15:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by kinolamb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "first move," you do NOT mean a sexual overture? You simply mean the first move in conversation/courtship?
Talk to the guy. I recommend saying something like, "hello." If that seems cumbersome, or you fear he may be repulsed by that, then you might try, "hey, on Yahoo Answers I asked if I should talk to a guy first, and Blutwulf told me to just walk up to you and strike up a conversation."
2007-09-17 15:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Blutwulf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you need to talk to him, some other time, in private. then tell him that you heard something about himself and yourself. ask him if it's true what you heard. he'll know what it is, he may have started it himself. when he clams up, chokes, whatever, ask him if he'd be ok, assuming he did clam up, with the rumor that he likes you. then just tell him that you like him, when he stutters and back steps eh issue. if he acts like he likes you all teh better. either way, put in his hand your phone number ior email, whatever, with a smile keep smiling as you turn away and tell him you have to go. he'll call if he likes you. and he will.
2007-09-17 15:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by 27ysq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this century it's ok to make the first move but don't make it too early wait for a couple of gestures that he makes maybe when you find out some of his gestures will be quite obvious that he likes you then give it a shot! but be careful some guys are egoistic!
2007-09-17 15:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Veracious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to watch some Mae West movies
2007-09-17 15:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you really sure or is this something that you heard. Now if its true, why wait...the early bird catches the worm ! Don't be scared, just talk to him !!!
2007-09-17 15:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by dic9na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and talk to him. Or maybe eye contact is good too then smile =D
2007-09-17 15:11:53 · answer #11 · answered by RawrItsaDelicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋