2007-09-17 14:51:37 · 15 answers · asked by brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get to know him a little and see what happens... or wait til they break up.
All in all I say, He is off limits. How would you feel if someone tried to take your boyfriend from you.
2007-09-17 14:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get aquainted with him. Keep conversation light and simple. Watch to see if he seems interested. If he is not interested then it is pretty much a loss cause......for the time being. You can try later ~ 6 months [alot can change by then]. If he is interested then be sweet. But much more IMPORTANT be SMART!!! Let him know that you know about thee girlfriend. This is KEY!!! Let him know that if he decides to break it off with the girlfriend, that you would not mind to go get a soda or something [no hanky panky- otherwise you will screw it up]. The advice I gave might seem sneeky and underhanded and all that BUT REMEMBER THIS: Just because he is in a relationship, it does not mean he is in love with her. Sometimes we are in relationships because we are comfortable. Basically what you are doing is keeping him as a friend in the case he becomes FREE for you to grab. DO NOT BE THE OTHER WOMAN UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. That is just being REALLY STUPID because you will get your heart broken.
2007-09-17 15:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends. How serious is his girlfriend? My fiance had a girlfriend when we started up, but it wasn't serious with the girlfriend. He was only with her for 2 or 3 months. Besides, it was so funny because he didn't exactly tell her they broke up, so she'd keep calling him until she figured it out. We got a real laugh out of that it took another month or so even though he never saw her. This girl was just dumb.
Anyways, get to know him better, find out what's up with the girlfriend and how serious he is. If he's not serious, flirt, give your number and see what happens.
2007-09-17 15:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there. Why would you pursue someone who is in a relationship? Don't you understand that in the end somebody is going to get hurt? Aren't there enough single guys around? Not only it is wrong, but also irresponsible from you to get between to people in a relationship. How would you like for another woman to do it to you?
2007-09-17 15:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just listen to your heart, get to know him better. Then if he seems to like you back then you should tell him that u like him too. Even though he has a girlfriend doesn't mean that he loves her. So find out his feelings for you before you tell him how you feel. Just whatever u do be careful.
Goodluck,
Miss Molly
2007-09-17 15:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Molly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him subtle hints that you are interested in him when his girlfriend isn't around, other than that just wait until he's available.
2007-09-17 15:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by 24Special 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
step awap because for right now he is off limits probably he will be single in some time wait for that just don't get in between them don't make yourself look like a hoe
2007-09-17 14:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by M-D-H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go out with him you are going out with a cheat and a liar.Just think about his girlfriend before you do something that you will regret.
2007-09-17 15:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find another guy to like.
2007-09-17 16:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave the guy, how would u feel , someone was after ur man.
there alot guy available. single or divorce.
take care doll
2007-09-17 14:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋