even though I have moved on it still bothers me every year
does it ever stop bothering you?? Every year no matter how busy i am I still get upset when it comes into my mind
2007-09-17 14:40:14 · 8 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There will come a time when the day passes and it does not come to mind about the divorce date or wedding anniversaries. I used to have the same thoughts, but I finally found a good man and the past is a distant memory with only good things in the future.
2007-09-17 14:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh get over it already! Getting divorced was one of the best things I ever did in life, it may not be that way for you, but the reality is ITS OVER! How can you ever really move on if you can't let go of the past and a bad experience (the divorce)
2007-09-17 22:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate. It will only bother you until you decide that you don't want to think about it anymore and put it out of your mind. You obviously still have feelings for him, but the marriage ended for a reason. I have some dates like that running around in my head, too. I have learned to be busy on those days and not think too much about it.
Good luck with that.
2007-09-17 21:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by thinkaspell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I think about my Divorce all the time, it seemed to be all out of my control when it happened. I've been Divorced 25 years and not a day goes by that I don't think about it, I really wish I could of had a second chance.
2007-09-17 21:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been almost 17 years since my divorce and yes I think about it on occasion. I am long past it, but I do have 2 children from the marriage, and I get sad over the fact they do not know their father, and how much he threw away - not only his family but also his life potential.
2007-09-17 21:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by K K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with being upset at a failed marriage. it is, in a way, similar to a death. you don't try to get over it, you simply try to live with it. and just like with a death, there are times when it will bother you. if it didn't, then the marriage didn't have anything to begin with. don't be so hard on yourself for having feelings. it's a good quality, not a bad one.
2007-09-17 21:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by The Beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont get easier until you let it go. you have moved on physically but not emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. you need to seek professional help to give you pointers on how to go about getting over your ex and dealing with the issues that led to the divorce and the divorce itself. until you do something along those lines you will continue to be sad and upset. seek help. GodBless
2007-09-17 22:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because when you get married you become one flesh, part of your body is missing.
2007-09-17 21:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋