me and my wife both have opposite sex friends. do u think its selfish 4 her to want me to herself
2007-09-17 14:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by J J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all, she Married You and it shows she's devoted to you and loves You!!
2007-09-17 14:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think its selfish of her wanting her husband to her self thats the reason why she married you so she could have you and only you. Would you rather for her not too want you to herself at all because if so then there is something wrong with you. Now think about this, how would you feel if she treated another guy like if he was the husband and you just the friend. I think you would'nt be asking this question if you thought about it that way. Im not a genious, but I think once you become married all opposite sex friends is on the back burner they should not have easy contact to you, and not only that, your friends becomes her friends if they want you they should go through her first to see if its ok and it should go both ways which might be already happening on her end, to make her wanting you to herself. I hope everything go well with you and your wife.
2007-09-18 16:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ms B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think she is being selfish she just wants to spend all her time with you and me and my husband have couple friends, so we all hang out together we never hang out with other people by ourselves i think it is better that way just because how many times have you heard about people cheating on their spouses because they went out with a friend and ended cheating
??ive heard that story countless times. Just find couples that you can hang out with together
2007-09-17 22:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No after all you are married to each other. Is she the one that's being selfish or you?
2007-09-17 22:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both have friends of the opposite sex then she should back off.
If she is willing to give hers up first then she can ask you to.
2007-09-18 10:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds controlling and possessive to me and yes that is selfish.
2007-09-17 21:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by The Other O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you and she are one flesh now.
2007-09-17 21:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋