Did Your Hot Husband/Wife Become Unattractive After Marriage?

Question

Do you plan to stay with them even though you're not attracted? Or are you going to cheat on them or leave?

Why?

Answer 1

do you?

Answer 2

Well, I've had a baby and am pregnant again so my body hasn't looked like it did when we first met in a while. But after this baby I plan on getting fixed and slimming back down to how I looked when we married (I've really only - when I'm not pregnant - gained like 25 pounds)
My husband looks the same. A little more pudge on his tummy but not noticable unless he bends over... I still think he's HOT! I'm always trying to grab his butt and stuff like that.
Even if I weren't attracted to him I wouldn't leave him over that - I am in love with him. If he gained 70 pounds tommorow, then of course, I'd want him to start working out and stuff, I'd do it with him... but he'd have to really do something (besides physically changing) for me to leave.

Answer 3

I plan to stay the rest of my life with my husband, I know he´s not 20 anymore and I can´t stop the time myself!..he´s near 50, we´ve been together for nearly 20 yrs....But I like him the same and love him even more... Marriage is a life commitment is not a game...At least I see it that way...He too. we have a great family.

Answer 4

When people are together for some time they stop seeing each other as attractive or un-attractive. The connection is on a deeper level.

Now, if you are with the right person, you will still have your ups and downs, but over-all you will feel close and connected to them. In your eyes they are the most beautiful person in the world, regardless of how they "look".

Answer 5

My wife is still hot after 17 years ,I on the other hand have turned bald .Luckily I did not turn fat , so even though I am attracted to her , she may not be attaracted to me . You can not plan on what is going to happen with how you look or how you may be treated in return .
I am staying cause we have little kids ,it is the best thing for them .No cheating .

Answer 6

I was the "hot" one in my marraige until I was put on bedrest for almost a year. I gained 75 pounds and while I feel like the marshmellow woman, my husband still wants me as much as he did when we first got married. He is constantly telling me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me. I believe the saying "love is blind" because we are living proof. When you are truly in love with someone it goes beyond the physical.

Answer 7

relies upon on the lady and the place the fat is going. i replaced into underweight until now i began college and now everybody says i glance great through fact I gained weight. i assume my metabolism ultimately slowed down particularly so as that my breasts ought to strengthen fuller and my rear end must be rounder. I nevertheless have a flat abdomen yet I gained approximately 20lbs for the time of faculty. i'm very tall, so as that could additionally be why gaining weight make me look extra constructive as a exchange of worse.

Answer 8

We have both gained a little weight. But we still love each other very much. We are staying until death do us part, just like we vowed! We are not going to cheat or leave!

Answer 9

When My soul mate walks into a room, I see him as the 20 year old I married 30 years ago. He says the same of me. I guess we see each other through ageless eyes.

Answer 10

sometimes the flame dies, but we get married for more things rather than just sex. we have a home for our children. our responsibilities and we consider not being by our selves in our old age, and not running around with different sexual partners, to get a disease that scientist have not given a name yet.

Answer 11

i would have to stay with her. i would only cheat if she was not a good wife. cook and clean.