2007-09-17 13:56:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when you're looking into someones crusty eyes and having their breath singe your eyebrows at 6am. and you're mad because he left the toilet seat up again, and you look at him and think "I love him, and I can't live without him"...that's when it's real.
2007-09-17 14:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I apologize for sounding high-and-mighty, but you guys are sad.
The sad thing is this unquestionable assumption that a relationship starts with lust. The two most meaningful relationships of my life have both started without lust, but with simple friendship. The sexual attraction in both cases didn't develop until after we loved each other. I would say "after we fell in love" but it's hard to draw that defining line.
I have felt lust. I know what lust feels like. I know what it feels like to look at a woman and want only one thing from her. The times I have looked at a woman that way, I never went farther than that. Both of the relationships I describe have come about unexpectedly. I think that if you're starting with lust, you probably really confuse the attraction. You probably never can know whether you're just lusting again, or if you really honestly want the other person because of the love.
If the love comes first, there's never a question.
2007-09-17 20:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by The Babe is Armed! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lust usually lasts for only a short time. Love lasts longer, but just like our natural body's it has to be fed.
2007-09-17 14:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If after the "Lust Stage" they still take your breathe away when you see them, You want to spend time with them even if it's not sexual..
Good luck!!!
2007-09-17 14:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by jeff b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love lasts and the lust increases ---- the longer you are with them the more you want to be with them and you desire them more and more --- especially if you have not yet had sex --- enjoy
2007-09-17 14:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the love test!!! NO sex for a month if you still feel the same way then it's love.
2007-09-17 14:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look into their eyes. If you can feel the stare, its a good sign. If your more concerned with them than you. Its a good sign. If you feel so comfortable with them you can burp. etc...
2007-09-17 14:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Arvind N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you stay with this person if for some reason they were unable to have sex again?
There's your answer.
2007-09-17 14:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋