I'm having friend problems. We have been friends for EVER (she is my main friend) and recently she has been treating me really badly. Like on the weekends (it has happened 3 weekends in a row!) she will invite all these other people and i will be the last one to be invited or an after thought and then be called. And when ever i go with her her boyfriend goes along and she sometimes forgets that i am even there, i already called her on it and she never changes!
It is kind of hard for me because i have not had boyfriend yet. And throught out the years i have always been much more into boys then she has. So its like she does not care about boys and then bang she gets a boyfriend and i don't have one.
And it is really starting to piss me off!
Overall i am angry that she is forgeting about me and putting me last.
p.s. my mom says i should not forget her but just start hanging out with other people
2007-09-17 13:52:58 · 7 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she has also said before that a boy will never get in the way of our friendship but she going against her word!
2007-09-17 13:54:30 · update #1
wow what a *****...... hang out with other people 2 or talk 2 her friends more.... she is blinded by a **** ing man whore sorry that kinda sounded harsh....... go out together without the boyfriend...
2007-09-17 14:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by psychodoll8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called growing up . Yes sometimes you lose friends sometimes you don't . Stick with her and she may change back or she may move along . Girls seem to have a way of forgetting their female friends when a boy comes along . Life sucks doesn't it . Good Luck and hope you the best .
2007-09-25 13:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, relax girl. things and people do change, what is your point of view of a good friend? always go out with you or always spend a lot of time with you? from my pt of view, i think a good friend is always there when i need them. from your scenerio your friend is just blinded by the love. you could try talking face to face, heart to heart, about her neglecting you and you shld really tell her how you feel. let her treasure you :) dont be angry, by posting it here, you still feel for the friendship and want to save it!
GOOD LUCK hope you get your best friend back! :)
2007-09-17 14:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by alf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like your mom said this girl is not your main friend and you are dumb to think she is. shes surely not one to be trusted with and you are right your mom told you to find another group of kids and shes right move on and find new good firends that will be there for you apparently shes not a good person. take care.
2007-09-25 13:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing is happening to me. Just act like you don't need her as much, and hang out with your other friends and she'll come around.
2007-09-17 14:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by desty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her how you feel maybe its that having aboyfriend is exiting for watch i know when she forgets about that boy youll be friends and still tell her how you feel next time you meet her because your friendship is more important thanher boyfriend
2007-09-23 12:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes going through a stage but she shouldn't be treating you like this have a quiet chat and tell her how you feel.
2007-09-25 00:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋