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having a baby is amazing im sure, but after seeing a lot of ur questions and how miserable a lot of u feel and all the random pains and symptoms, doesnt it freak anyone out?
i mean reading some of this stuff kinda scares me, like going through all this. i have anxiety so im gonna have to practically live with a dr til i give birth, i know ill worry so much about every pain and headache and stomach ache i get.

dont get me wrong ,i love kids and i absolutly cant wait to have them, but do a lot of people really feel so miserable while pregnant?

2007-09-17 13:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Blondie131 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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As I sit here with my daughter bearing down hard on me and my foot falling asleep because she is cutting off my circulation, I have to say, without a doubt in my mind, it is all worth it.

It isn't like we have stabbing pains all day. We just have a lot of moments of discomfort and short-lived pains. You won't remember any of the discomfort when your baby starts kicking you and rolling over. You can't help but smile at how wonderful the life inside of you is.

No one comes on yahoo answers to post "Wow, I feel great today! Where did all my symptoms go?!" You just see the worried women wanting to know if others have experienced the same thing. Believe me, it is much easier to ask online after hours than to keep going to the hospital for every little thing.

2007-09-17 13:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy 7 · 3 0

Every pregnancy is different. Some women don't know they're pregnant 'til they're 6mos.+!! I don't know how they do it, but it happens fairly often. There were things I absolutely loved about being pregnant, but there were a lot of things that made me horribly uncomfortable in my own body. It's all just hormones and need of a chiropractor ;)

Growing, birthing and raising children is the most amazing thing you could ever do. You won't regret it despite the aches and pains that come hand-in-hand with it! The wonder of it all completely overshadows them after it's over and you'll want to do it all over again!

2007-09-17 20:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Alexandra R 2 · 0 0

reading about how many miscarriages some of these women have had scare me... and at what stage, like some people had them at 15-20 weeks, some have had still births...it really worries me. Not so much the pains and symtoms, bc ive had 2 kids and am pregnant with my 3rd. But the miscarriages is what worries me about this one. Im only 7 weeks and I miscarried 7/31/07 at 6 weeks. I dont wanna end up like some of those women that have had like 8 miscarriages!

2007-09-17 21:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Tessa♥ 4 · 0 0

Some people absolutely feel pregnant in many many ways, and some go through pregnancy like nothing and then one day pop out a baby.
It all depends on your body and how intune you are to it and really how sensitive you are.
But really most of the discomfort happens near the end when the baby drops or its getting to be that time.
I envy the woman who feel nothing during pregnancy but the joys of your baby kicking, oh and by the way isn't so nice when its poping your ribs! he he.

2007-09-17 20:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My pregnancies were miserable, yes. I was throwing up 20+ times a day for over 5 months. It was bad. And with my first, my hips hurt so bad, I'd lay in bed crying half the night. I was also induced twice, which made giving birth excrutiating for me (my body does not take epidurals well at all for some reason).

But my children are worth it and I'd do it over again many times for them.

2007-09-17 20:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by anne_deezoff 6 · 2 0

It just seems like we are only complaining because this website is all about asking questions...so when something irks us it is just easier to post it on here. Plus our drs. have heard it all a million times and all they say to us is, "yep, that's normal. The only way to stop it is to deliver. " so this is our way if finding out how "normal" we really are. Ok, as I type this, I am having big tummy cramps..may be the beginning of labor, may not be.....but since I have done this before I know the best part of it all......LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT when you see your baby you will literally go crazy inside with a instinctual protective love. Its pretty nuts, you've got to experience it to get it!!!

2007-09-17 20:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by DeeAnne 2 · 0 0

Well it just all depends on the woman.

I'm pretty miserable, but I know that the end result is totally worth it.

My body is growing, nourishing, and comforting another being. It's just something that's greater than me.

It's normal to feel worried, but you just have to take it one day at a time. Have faith in yourself.

2007-09-17 20:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 0 0

i feel the same way you do. iam right now having symptoms of a pregnant woman but i just came off of my period two days ago. the responses iam getting from over half of people is that iam pregnant or i might be pregnant. reading others answers also is scaring the hell out of me.

2007-09-17 21:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

we ask question s and answer how it is if we turned around and ssid it was wodnerful we would be telling a load full of ****. its a beautiful experiance yet at one point or another you do feel like **** and their are things that irritate you. your making a child your not going to feel like you casn conquer the world

2007-09-17 20:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0 0

its not a constant thing (well, at 36+ weeks it is, but then its almost over!), but pregnancy is not this glowing, sexy thing that TV has misrepresented. It hard work, and its difficult at times. But the reward is worth the work a thousand times over!!!

2007-09-17 20:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2 0

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