ok well im on my period and all the guys are pantsing(pulling down pants)to all the girl during p.e. what should i do i dont want them to pull down my pants and then a pad or tampon string is hanging out! and if they see a pad i dont know what to say if they see it. i have already tried holding my pants up but they are really strong! lol
help me!
2007-09-17 12:20:51 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
i cant wear a belt because we have uniforms and a belt wouldnt stay on the shorts
2007-09-17 12:24:43 · update #1
im only in 6th grade and we are walking outside so the teacher is ahead of us
2007-09-17 12:29:24 · update #2
Students shouldn't be pantsing during PE, that is considered sexual harrassment...where are the teachers during this time?
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If the teacher is walking ahead, then someone needs to tell him/her to have the boys walk ahead of the girls so this does not occur. It will mean someone stepping up and speaking out about what the boys are doing. Save yourself and other girls embarrassment and tell the teacher yourself. There are rules at schools about boys sexually harrasing girls and that is exactly what they are doing to ya'll.
2007-09-17 12:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by ripsgracie 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, that's sexual harrassment, and no girl should have to worry about losing her pants at school!! You talk like this is a 'normal' thing that happens in school, but you should know that it's not funny or OK in any way at all! Your body is your property, and nobody has the right to touch you, let alone disrobe you without your consent. Someone should be telling the school officials about this so that the boys who are doing it can be set straight. Go straight to the pe teacher, and if they won't do anything, tell your parents, and they can deal with this. It's NOT ok, and ALL boys need to be taught this so that they don't grow up to be rapists. Girls also need to take it seriously, and tell someone when this happens to them, instead of worrying about them seeing your pad or tampon!! They shouldn't be touching ANYONE without consent!!
2007-09-17 12:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Irrepairable 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them to stop or make up some excuse to leave during the class time and be sure not to bring it up randomly in front of the wrong crowd. and I know it would be embarrassing if it happened while u were on Ur period but every girl gets there period and they'll understand. just keep those pants up and try to go with a tampon because if you do get de-pants then it'll be less obvious and they might not notice the string so just don't point it out.
keep ur pants up! lol
:))))))
dont worry
2007-09-17 12:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is classed as sexual harassment, and for the school to allow it to happen, or at least not to prevent it, is horrendous. The boys need to be punished (detention, suspendtion, expulsion) to discourage this sort of behavior. They are too old to consider that sort of action funny. I am assuming that you are in middle or high school.
Tell the staff that this is going on, and that they will face a class action suit if they don't prevent this happening (failure to provide a safe environment - with adequate supervision- for education), that will get them off their behinds and make sure the kids are supervised to prevent this happening.
But to protect yourself against it try wearing a body suit under your uniform so you have extra covering should they still do this. Or sports briefs on top of your underwear.
2007-09-17 12:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would do a serious round house and kick them in the knee !! That is sexual assault, and you do not need to take it.
It bothers you I know, it is really sad the little jerks do that. , There is a feminine cup out there, for menstrual blood, that hides the whole deal. No strings,no pads. You can find them in a pharmacy, if you are in the states a CVS might have them.
2007-09-17 12:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Robin B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to report their actions to the teacher and/or the deans. This may seem like silly school-yard horseplay, but it is sexual harassment and even sexual assualt. What they are doing is cruel and outrageous - what starts as "pantsing" now can turn into gang rape in a few years if they don't learn boundaries.
You should also learn to defend yourself. If one of these guys get anywear near you, lash out with your foot and kick them. In the crotch, if you really need to get your message across. Remind them that they need to respect your personal space if they want you to not cause serious pain to theirs.
Also, try wearing tight-fitting biker shorts under your PE shorts. It would be much harder for them to pull those down as well, and give you plenty of time to defend yourself.
2007-09-17 12:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have several options here. Let's start with those that are rational. You should be able to report this to the P.E. teacher and have it stopped by them. If that doesn't work tell your dad and if he is any kind of man he will find a way to stop this. I am not recommending you do this, but i would tell my daughter to kick them as hard as possible in the crotch or grab their hair and knee them in the face.
2007-09-17 12:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Gregory A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is the school allowing this? This is bullying and should be stopped. You do not need to be embarrassed because they see a pad -- that's why they should grow up and act right in the first place. Talk to the teacher, and if nothing happens go, with your mom, to the principals office. This should not be allowed.
2007-09-17 12:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by marie 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
kick them in the nuts, they should not be pantsing people left and right, that is ridiculusly immature. but if you wear a tampon just make sure the string isnt hanging out, but really should not just let guys continuously pants you.
2007-09-17 12:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by Shit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that this is allowed at all - where are the teachers/supervision? Besides that - casting your embarrassment aside - they will feel very embarrassed themselves seeing that - tell them that it takes an adult minded person to have their monthlies, it takes an immature brat to pull down pants - perhaps they should go back to pre-school, but I doubt that that is even done there.
2007-09-17 12:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Embarrassed 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋