I like guys, and recently, I'm starting to like ladies. I guess I would be considered bicurious. In conversations with some friends, I have said that I like both. Is it wrong for me not to announce to the whole world and declare my 'label'? I know what I feel, does the rest of the world need to know all my business?
2007-09-17 12:09:53 · 22 answers · asked by ravenrogue84 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think communicating like you do is good. Most people have had bicurious feelings unless they are phobic (loonie).
Bi sexuality as an accepted practice has been a big part of history and european cultures and probably much more.
You sound liberated and cosmopolitan.
2007-09-25 11:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by srsly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are what you are.
No need to be trying to put names to something there might not be a name for.
You only need to tell the people you want to tell or the people who it's necessary to tell. Like a woman you may want to date or you close friends if you are dating a women.
I don't see the point in declaring your sexuality to the world. Men who like B/J's don't announce it. People who like spanking don't announce it. The only time you need to is if it becomes something that you need to. But hey... if you get a girlfriend tell people then - "this is my girlfriend ...." - don't bother till then.
2007-09-23 19:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong at all - if you are comfortable about telling people and you want them to know go ahead and tell them if you would rather keep it to yourself then that's equally fine...
for me I was attracted to girls at a young age but didn't think anything of it till maybe 8th grade? I didn't tell anyone for about a year after that then i gradually came out to a few friends & by the time I graduated highschool I became completely open about it - I'm not gonna go round telling any bob dick and harry I run into but if it comes up I'll be totally open about it....
in conclusion - go with what makes you comfortable... there's no right or wrong.
2007-09-23 14:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I let there be a label on me it would also be bisexual, but I don't have sex with anyone other then my girlfriend. When asked, I say bisexual. I always get a million questions, and I just sum it up to,.... I am not into a guy or a girl, I am into a person. It doesn't matter whether they are male or female. That usually shuts most up.
2007-09-25 10:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they ask. I only ever tell close friends & people I'm attracted to about my sexual preference. Telling anyone & everyone seems a little bit like declaring to the world that I masturbate in the shower too.
2007-09-17 19:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by St John the Blasphemist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if your not ready for the world to know take your time and let it out smooth and easy. Take one step at a time and never be afraid to be who you are Juz keep doing what you do and stay the nice person you seem to be I hope my advice helped you in some way and I truely hope you find your way and become free when you truely are ready.
2007-09-17 19:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessary to declare to the whole world your sexual orientation or what label you are. Theres no right or wrong in declarin yourself. If you wish to, go ahead.
For me im out to my close friends, and some whom i wish em to know, but not others (acquitances etc). I dont mind tellin em who i am but just dont think it's necessary? But if they ask i wont deny :)
I wont go up to anyone and tell him/her 'Hey im gay!!' that looks like im not comfortable with who i am lol.. i'd prefer to be natural
2007-09-17 19:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by OneWingedAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you're comfortable enough to tell other people! I wish I could just bring it up like that (it'd save me a lot of awkwardness in the long run). It's definitely not wrong for you to tell people about your preference if it comes up.
2007-09-17 19:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Aura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it helps take pressure off gay people to have lots of people sharing a positive interest in the subject . You will run into some hostility tho . Good luck w your explorations .
2007-09-17 21:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it aint wrong to tell ppl personally i think ppl need to be mature about it beacause its ur life not thiers u can do whatever u please or u can like whoever u want to... so no i think u aint in the wrong bout that cause i tell all kinds of ppl especially when they confront me about...im in highschool so word gets around well good luck take care and godbless.
2007-09-23 02:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋