I have two beautiful kids 4 and 2 and pregnant with another, which i am so happy, but after sort of telling my mom, she was not happy at all, saying that i should not have 3 bec. 2 is hard and I should worry about them and there future.
She is also very sick and on alot of medication and chemo, i did not exactly tell her i was pregnant, but when her reaction was not what i had excepted, I dropped it.
I am very hurt and that fact that she will not be pleased when i actually do tell her. My husband and myself did plan this pregnancy so I do not know what to think.
The way I feel now is that I want to sell my house and move far away.
Any help out there? Thanks.
2007-09-17 12:00:36 · 4 answers · asked by GQ69 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm sorry to hear this it really does make me sad. The bond between a mother and daughter is so great that you feel that you never want to "dissapoint" her. But you won't she is probably just concerned that it will be harder taking on 3 children than 2..... She loves you, you are her baby and she is probably a little sad right now that she is sick and may never meet child #3. I can't say I don't blame her. Talk to her and let her know how you feel and that you are happy about it and will be fine, that is probably all she wants to hear. Good luck.
2007-09-17 12:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is more worried because she is sick and she won't be able to spend as much time with the new baby as with your older children. Just reassure her that you have everything under control. She may also be worried because if you have been taking care of her that you might not be able to.
2007-09-17 12:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can say thoughtless things, whether it's your mom, sister, MIL or whatever. Don't let it get to you. The main thing is that you and your hubby are happy :)
Congratulations!!
2007-09-17 12:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, your mom will get over it once she meets the new baby.
And if she doesn't she really needs to check herself. Who the hell is she to tell you how many kids you should have?
You're a grown woman.
2007-09-17 12:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋