My husband watches porn on a regular basis (once or twice times a week). Is it an indicator of a problem in the relationship, sex life, personality? Or is it absolutely normal?
2007-09-17 10:14:58 · 10 answers · asked by Stranger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that it is normal for a guy to watch porn. I've been with my boyfriend for five years and he watches it every once in a while.
But i think that if the two of you are having sex and he doesn't seem like he's into it (or you)... than maybe you have a problem.
Maybe spice things up and ask him to watch it together. Maybe ask him what could you do to be like the girls in the movies?
Whenever we hear that the man we love is into watching other girls... all sorts of insecurities come pouring out. Just remember... its only a fantasy. Your man wants to be with YOU.
2007-09-17 10:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, porn isn't dishonest! It is hurtful and it might intent disorders, nevertheless. But by and large when you consider that (and I can not suppose I'm pronouncing this) ladies are so insecure approximately themselves. I had a situation with porn for many years. Until I learned, he is not ever going to give up. And we nonetheless have a healthful, comfortable intercourse existence. Porn for guys is usual. Think approximately it. They watch it of their teenager years, after they become aware of masterbation and all that well stuff. It's a facet of them. It's now not a massive deal. You simply must come to phrases to your possess. The best time it turns into a situation is while he does not wish to have intercourse with you, and turns to porn extra commonly then now not. Then you've got a situation. And of direction he'll lie should you seize him. They think ashamed that you just stuck them. Men watch porn for plenty of factors. One, think they labored all day, they arrive house, they do wish intercourse, however they realize it'll take a minimum of forty mins and extra they usually simply wish some thing fast and move to mattress. Porn. Or 2, are you going to behave out their fable of woman on woman? It's fable. An outlet. I'm now not condoning porn. I desire it used to be banned. But it not ever can be. Good good fortune.
2016-09-05 17:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by luzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching porn once or twice a week is not unusual even for women. And it doesn't sound like it will be any more of a problem than you make it out to be.
Here are some signs of porn addiction that you should watch out for.
- uninterested in sex or intimacy with you
- over interested in oral sex
- keeps eyes closed during sex and oral sex
- reluctance to leave the home
- suddenly becomes reclusive
- only want to receive (sexual selfishness)
- unreasonable/unbelievable denial of interest in porn
2007-09-19 05:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In most cases, men are more visually stimulated than women. That's why men enjoy porn so much. I'm inclined to say that it's probably normal and you most likely have nothing to worry about. If you're really that concerned, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't at least ask him if he watches porn because of a problem in your relationship and/or sex life. Communication is always a good policy. Good luck.
2007-09-18 15:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once or twice a week is not a problem at all. If you had any idea how much some guys have some form of porn in front of them you would be shocked.
2007-09-17 10:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion it really depends on the guy... for some it may be a relational problem or poor sex life, but for others it is completely normal. Talk to your husband about it. If you're comfortable with it, ask him if you can watch it with him... get ideas and play with each other when you do it. You can turn it into something intimate for both of you.
Good luck :)
2007-09-17 10:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I watch porn almost daily and I am happily married for five years now. Totally satisfied with wife and sex life. Porn is just cool. Sometimes we make out own.
2007-09-17 10:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is absolutely normal.
It would be a problem if he retreated from the rest of his life and porn became an addiction. Otherwise, all guys look at porn, it's a biological thing for us.
2007-09-17 10:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Greenman 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its normal ...its just dat v guys like to watch n learn new tricks of having sex....just chill ur man is at ur hand
2007-09-17 10:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by king 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If hr isn't making the movies don't worry. try to engage his sense of faantasy maybe he'll watch you
2007-09-17 10:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by frank 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋