trying to get pregnant?

Question

Hi,I am 26 yrs old and am trying to get pregnant .Me and my hubby started trying from last month...As of now.. the online ovulation calendar shows that i am most fertile from Sep 29-Oct 2...i have a doubt...on these days.. should we have sex in the mornings or at nights.... Which has more chances of getting pregnant ASAP? Can any one help me in clearing my doubt!

Answer 1

We go for night as you don't have to move for hours after. Ovulation sticks are more reliable than an online calendar: you might want to try them, even though they're quite expensive. Take pre-pregnancy vitamin supplements too so if you get lucky, Baby has all the necessary vitamins from day 1.
Having said all that though, we're still trying...
Good luck to you!

Answer 2

If you are trying to get pregnant, have sex at least three times a week. That will increase the chance of getting pregnant! I would say night since it's dark and it's nice if you lit candles...but if you're a morning person, yeah do it in the morning. Good luck.

Answer 3

Couple of things....

First, I heard that a good way to get pregnant is simply to have sex every other day. Period. Sounds about right.

But if you are basing it on a particular set of days, have hubby "save up" before then so he'll have plenty of volume to deliver. For this effort you need plenty to ensure the effect you want.

Next, on those days, YOU have to do more than be mechanical. You have to do whatever it is that most excites your hubby. Certain outfits, words, actions, positions, etc.

Why? Because you need him to be as excited as possible and, thus, be able to express himself with a sizeable amount of volume, as well as put it deep within you for the purpose intended. Otherwise, it will ho-hum and it may not be as explosive as it can be (which is not a requirement, but it ups the odds, it seems).

Also, YOU need to be in the action. Depending on how things are arranged, you might need to take care of yourself upfront so that you are fully receptive...or you may need to be taking care of yourself DURING the whole thing so that you are fully prepared to receive what he's delivering. This, too, is not a requirement, but from reports, it seems to up the odds of success.

Main thing is to get him in such a state that he puts every last drop of himself deep into you.

Answer 4

It is not as easy as some might think to get pregnant! It will probably take you a few months! I would track your CM and BBT! I would also use OPK's! When your CM is clear and stretchy have sex every day!

Answer 5

1. Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.

2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.

Answer 6

try early in the moring, for morning time sperm is high, like 5:00am, and also stay in bed after he ejectulate

Answer 7

Hey....do it both! Isn't that the joy of making a baby!