I was supposed to have my period 2 weeks ago, I need to pee like 15 times a day, my breasts are tender, I even took a home pregnancy test and I was positive for a pregnancy. My bf always wears a condom when we have sex and he pulls his penis out of me before he cums, but I still feel like it didn't make anything better. Am I pregnant?
2007-09-17 08:19:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh crap, I don't want my parents to find out, I'm only 15. I'm a high school freshman and already I am pregnant. I guess my 7th grade health teacher was right, choose abstinance. How will I be able to pay for the trip to the doctor without my parents finding out, I only have about $50 because I don't get allowance anymore and my parents won't let me work at Publix until next year when I have my own car.
2007-09-17 08:29:19 · update #1
In case some of you didn't read everything, MY BF DOES USE A CONDOM! Thanks for the advice anyways, I'll never have ANY sex again, including masturbation, until I am married with my parents' permission.
2007-09-17 08:34:57 · update #2
Are abortions really effective? My bf and I had sex a little less than a month ago. I'm afraid if it is too late.
2007-09-17 08:36:20 · update #3
I guess I'll have to tell my parents to take me to the doctor to see if I'm pregnant. It will also be hard to convince my bf that I can't have sex with him anymore. Tomorrow in school, I'll talk to him and tell him to avoid any sexual activity with me; I'm just afraid that he'll break up with me and I love him so much. If my parents would let me, I'd marry him. God help me! That includes all of you in Yahoo! Answers as well, keep answering and it might make things feel better for me.
2007-09-17 08:49:34 · update #4
I never realized that home pregnancy tests are really that accurate, especially the $1 ones, I thought that they weren't always accurate because they're much cheaper. I need to just go through this and put it behind me. Maybe I can give the baby to an infertile woman who would pay me for my baby.
2007-09-17 08:54:06 · update #5
Well if you took a home test and it said positive, you are pregnant.
2007-09-17 08:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You very well could be. Take another test first thing in the morning or call the doctors. As far as your method - it's good he's wearing a condom, but this is not 100% effective. Pulling out isn't really going to make a difference. There is always pre-ejaculatory sperm (before), so you're always at risk of becoming pregnant if you're having sex. You might want to use more than one method to make yourself better protected.
Best Wishes
Oh - I didn't read you said it was Positive? Then YES you are. They are very accurate. Call the dr's asap and take your prenatal vitamins, look up a good pregnancy diet online - you want to make sure you are getting the adequate proper nutrition to support both your body and your baby. Congratulations!
2007-09-17 08:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lamont 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay honey. If the test was positive your pregnant. condoms are great and all but you usually need to have back up. Meaning birth control or spermicide. Condoms do break or get tiny holes in them. Plus there is precum before guys actually ***. You should go to a clinic in your town. They have free clinics. So that you can get looked at. Also I understand your only 15 but you do need to sit down and talk with your parents about the situation. They will be able to help to more.I know that its a really scary time for you right now but this is something you will have to do honey. Just take a deep breath and just tell them. you will be thankful you did and your parents will be glad that you came to them with this regardless of how disappointed they might be in you at that moment they are your parents they are there to help. It also show that your being responsible. That you made a mistake and now you need help. I wish you the best of luck honey. I hope you make the right choice and talk to your parents. For your health and your babies. Best Of Luck to You.
2007-09-17 08:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by jellybelly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok the "pull out" method is not effective hun. Condoms sometimes are not either if there is some sort of tiny pin hole that can happen. You NEED to go to the doctor right away for and HCG test if the box brand said positive. Finding out sooner than later will help you and the baby because the sooner you start your prenatals and your early screenings the better. Good luck.
2007-09-17 08:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are pregnant.
Don't make any decisions in a state of panic. Go to a free clinic, it's confidential, you can go by yourself or with your boyfriend if you want. http://www.pregnancycenters.org/advantage.asp They will do an ultrasound to see how far along you are (it sounds to me like the baby is about 4 weeks old) and to make sure there are no problems. Then they'll have you speak to an options counselor. Once you've got a plan together, it's time to tell your parents.
You should also talk to a guidance counselor about programs for student moms- like daycare, online classes- so that you graduate on time.
Best wishes!
<3 Kelsey
2007-09-17 08:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your home test was positive - then you are pregnant. It could have happened during foreplay if he didn't wear a condom them. You need to make an appointment with an OB to start your pre-natal care. Also, go to the store and get some pre-natal vitamins - it is very important to take these to avoid birth defects.
Good Luck!
2007-09-17 08:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are pregnant. It is uncommon to get false positives so if the test says yes then it is a yes!!!
You must inform your parents because you are very young to have an abortion or even keep the baby. You will need your family's help no matter what you will decide to do.
I wish you good luck and strength because you need both of them...
2007-09-17 08:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are pregnant, especially since the home pregnancy test said you were. Those things don't give many false positives. I had those symptoms as well when I was pregnant. If you are young, tell your parents... If you are older, make an ob/gyn appointment...
2007-09-17 08:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by __XXX___ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you took a home pregnancy test and it was positive, then you are pregnant. Sometimes you'll get a false negative, but rarely if ever a false positive. You need to call and make an appointment with an OB/Gyn.
2007-09-17 08:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's nearly impossible to get a false positive on a pregnancy test. Sorry to say, you're pregnant. Even if your bf pulls out, there are still sperm in his pre-ejaculate and you can get pregnant from that.
2007-09-17 08:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by PJ's Mom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you are pregnant! If so congratulations!!! If I was you I would go to the Health Department or a family Physician. You need to know exactly if you are so that you may make your first appointment to see the Prenatal Doctor.
2007-09-17 08:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋