Pregnant and need advice from young moms 18YRS AND YOUNGER?

Question

Im 18yrs old ill be 19 in feb. I found out im prego about a month in a half. I dont know what to do. The daddy will be there for me either way , its my choice. He would choose abortion tho only cause im so young and he is 25. YOUNG MOMS HELP give me advice

I cant see anyone elses answers for some reason I NEED YOUNG MOMS TO GIVE ADIVE. please email me [e-mail] PLEASE PLEASE ANYONE I NEED ADVICE

Well the babies dad said , the we cant play god and say abortion if god put a baby of ours in my belly its up to us to raise it and love it. SCARY

Answer 1

At the end of the day this is a decision you will have to make for yourself. Honestly you should not have an abortion, there are so many couples out there that are unable to have children themselves and would be more than happy to adopt your baby. I am 19 and i am about to have my first child in about a week, altough i am married, so i don't know exactly what it is like to be in your position, a baby will change your life in so many ways, and its is a wonderful expierence. You may want to consider keeping your baby as this is a huge decision that you could regret. Give it some deep thought and do what is not only right for yourself but also think about the child you created who has no control over you decision.

Answer 2

I am 18 and due in april, I will be 19 in Feb as well. My baby was planned though we really wanted this baby. I had a D&C last year because the baby did not form and it would not come out on its own, You should either keep the baby or give it up for adoption. When you loose a baby like I did you would never think about taking ones life again. Abortion is not the answer to your mistakes. So many people who cannot have babies would love to have your baby if you no longer want to keep it, I am so against abortion do not do it. Plus it wil be harder for you to deal with mentally as you get older you will always remember the baby you killed, you will remember when it was supposed to be born, when it was concieved, and every year when it comes around you will feel guilt on that babys birthday. Think about it!!! Are you ok with abortion? It seems that your boyfriend would not be there since he is pushing abortion on you which should make you question your relationship with him and when he will be there and when he wont.

Answer 3

Having an abortion would be the biggest mistake of your life. I can't stress that enough. You can be a great parent even if your young. I was 15 when a got pregnant with my 1st and 17 with my 2nd and I openly admit that I am a great mom. Most scared fathers to-be do push for an abortion because they dont know anything about what is like to have another life growing inside of you. You can do it! Do it for your baby..... I promise that you will feel a love that you never knew was possible to feel when you hold your baby for the first time.

Answer 4

I don't see what age--or at least the age difference--has to do with anything. You are 18 so I'm assuming that you have graduated high school. Your boyfriend is 25 so it seems like he can help support you and a baby. And, even if he can't, you don't have to choose abortion because there is always adoption. You should consider yourself very lucky to have a boyfriend who will support you either way. Take advantage of that and don't do anything you might regret in the future. If you are worried about the idea of giving your baby up for adoption and never seeing him/her again, know that there is something called "open adoption" that allows you to keep in contact with your child and the adoptive parents as they are growing up.

Answer 5

im 18 an im 39wks pregnant. dont have an abortion, every child is a gift from God. the father of my child has been there for me every step of the way and my family has been very very supportive. i was a little scared at first, but when you hear that first little heartbeat and feel that first little kick, you know that you have created that baby inside you and i promise you are not gonna want it any other way. im so very excited now and i cant wait for my little bundle of joy to arrive. i think you will make the right decision by keeping the baby, its a life that you created. it sounds like the dad of the child will be very supportive to you and thats the most important thing. keep your baby and take advantage of every minute you are pregnant, its wonderful!!!! good luck to you, i hope you make the right decision. and if you ever need someone to talk to you can email me. ive gone through the same thing your going through and im always here to help. good luck again

Answer 6

that's your child. i was young when i had my first child....18. Abortion was not even an option and i had no idea how i was going to do it and i had no money. if your bf cant respect the fact that you want to have this baby, even though you are young...that sounds like a personal problem he needs to deal with. I know you want your baby. I know you do. so dont let nothing get in the way of that thought, not even the father because he knew how old you were im sure when he was telling you how good it felt. now you see how good it feels to be a mom cuz lord knows it feels great. nothing beats when they want only you and the first time their little arms wrap around you and hug you.

Answer 7

I'm not under 18 anymore, but I had my daughter at 17 and my son at 19. It is not going to be easy to raise a child at your age. With that said, I do not regret in the least my choice to keep my daughter (I don't believe in abortions). My son I actually had to take fertility treatments to conceive. If the dad will be there to help, that will make things a lot easier for you. Children are a huge responsibility but they are also a great gift. My daughter is now in 2nd grade and one of the best students in her class. My son hasn't started school yet, but he is the sweetest little child I know. Being a mother has great perks! Being a young mother just means you'll struggle more.

Best of luck!

Answer 8

I was a young mom. I had a son at 17. Now I am 28 and have 3 kids. The father ( my husband) and I we worked it out. It was hard but we managed. We are still married and have all the kids.
You have to make the right deision for you. No one else can make tell you what to do. I wouldn't choose abortion if I were in your place. I thik thats its wrong.
There are lots of families out there who would adopt your child if given the oppurtunity.
Or if you want to keep your child you can find a way to work it out.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Please don't get an abortion. Give the baby up to someone who can't have one if you don't think you want to take on the responsibility. There are so many people out there who would give anything to be pregnant - don't throw your baby away.