No im not married,just a question i asked!
2007-09-17 06:34:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not necessarily
2007-09-17 07:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kate :-) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. "Letting yourself go" is what children do. Children argue and become defensive because they can't reason things out like an adult. Adults should sit down and discuss issues and work them out, compromising if they need to. Adults need to learn self-control and treat others with respect regardless of their differences. If anyone says something to you that angers you, just keep your lip zipped. As long as you don't add fuel to the fire, there can be no argument. Let them know you will discuss it when you have calmed down.
And nagging is so demeaning that people need to be careful how they approach others when they want or need something done whether it be with their spouse or someone else. If you nag someone all the time and constantly give them negative feedback, they will eventually believe what you say ~ ESPECIALLY children.
If each person is giving 100% of themselves to the other and show more concern for the other person's happiness, they will always be willing to listen and do things that will make the other happy and there won't be any need to nag, only to remind if someone forgets to do something they promised.
2007-09-17 13:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Nagging" needs to be brought out onto the table and dealt with before it doesn lead to divorce. Letting yourself go is either about depression or taking advantage of your marriage. Find out which one is making you crazy.
2007-09-17 13:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by anaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those problems alone wont lead to divorce, however could contribute to the downfall of the relationship. Those are both problems that could be corrected with some communication, and could be overcome by two people in love.
2007-09-17 13:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can. The nagging part would create all sorts of issues. Letting yourself go can cause problems depending on how much they let go.
2007-09-17 13:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Constant nagging sure will. Who wants to live like that?
2007-09-17 13:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Flatpaw 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No...some of us need to be nagged or we'd never leave the computer & do anything! Not that I'm guilty of that of course ! lol
2007-09-17 14:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it would. I'd divorce someone if he constantly nagged me or let himself go.
2007-09-17 13:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Hsook 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-09-17 13:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand a nag!
2007-09-17 14:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Ive seen where this happens alot, but these are some materialists that usually fall for that " either u look good or i divorce u " crap
2007-09-17 13:42:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋