my step dad and i don't get along about 60% of the time. he doesn't let me go anywhere, and its ruining my relationship w/ my boyfriend. what do i do?
sometimes we throw things at eachother, but he has never hit me...or layed a hand on me
2007-09-17 05:45:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Theater & Acting
Try posing this question in the approriate section for one thing. Actors may not give the best advice :-)
What's the real reason your stepdad won't let you go anywhere? Are you holding up your end of the bargain on things? Are your chores done? Is your room clean to their expectations? Are you giving your parents all the information on where you're going and who you're going with (the truth)? Have you followed or broken the rules when you've gone out with him or anyone else before? Is this boyfriend to be trusted? If they have any reason not to trust this boyfriend then I don't blame them for not letting their precious daughter go anywhere with him. If your boyfriend cares about you that much then he should be doing what he can to appease your parents and make them feel better about taking you out and so should you. If you really want to go out then you should do everything that is expected of you. Why should they let you go anywhere if you haven't done your homework, your chores, etc. or especially if they think harm may come to you (or your reputation if you get my meaning)?
BTW, throwing things at each other is still abusive and that's on both sides. You should both stop being childish and have a real discussion about this. Come to an agreement about this once and for all and as long as you BOTH hold up your ends of the bargain there could be peace between you and a good relationship ahead for all.
good luck
2007-09-17 06:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats probably going to kill your relationship completely with your boy friend. I had the same problem. i dated my first love and even had plans on getting married but since we never got to see each other the relationship failed. Theres really nothing you can do. All you can do it just leave and hope they dont kick you out. i would stop throwing things if you can. it shows immaturity.
2007-09-17 05:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what does your mother say?
this was a serious statement...I am curious since she is married to the guy...
Also you mentioned "sometimes we throw things at each other, but he has never hit me...or layed a hand on me" now I am confused if you are talking about your stepdad (which I think you are) or your boyfriend???
2007-09-17 05:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU, WHERE DOES YOUR BF TAKE YOU HOW OLD IS HE?THERE ARE MANY THINGS YOU HAVE OMITTED FROM YOUR QUESTION. GO BACK AND START OVER AND HELP US OUT IN ANSWERING YOUR QUESTION.
2007-09-21 05:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Loren S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him . He is probably scared , after all he is your step dad .
2007-09-17 05:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by vpsinbad50 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess you both need to grow up.
2007-09-17 05:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋