Trust me I'm married and if my husband was stepping out with one of my friends I would want to know. Whats your opinion?
2007-09-17 05:19:03 · 23 answers · asked by ~♥~ *CHEEKY* ~♥~ 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ice Queen: There is NOT a good reason to start an affair! It's wrong no matter what!
2007-09-17 08:44:54 · update #1
ooooh ! Ice Queen must have a guilty conscience! she deleted her answer and blocked me!
2007-09-17 09:55:31 · update #2
I already lost her as a friend she even blocked me!
2007-09-17 10:04:46 · update #3
Ooo, that's a touchy one. I probably would keep my mouth shut. It has nothing to do with me & it's not my business. I don't think I would be friend's with either one of the people having an affair because I would not want to condone or hear about someone getting screwed over that bad. I would be praying for that friend to find out the truth someway though so she could get out of that horrible situation. I'm sorry, I just don't think it would be my place but like I said< I would hope & pray for the best for him or her.
2007-09-17 05:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, I would not tell. No one ever knows for sure what goes on behind closed doors in another's marriage. I was in a situation like this many years ago, and I chose not to say anything to my friend Chris. I knew by speaking up, there would be alot of hurt going around, so I let it go and told myself it was a personal thing between the parties involved. The husband in that case eventually came to his senses and stopped the affair. His wife never found out about it, and they are still married to this day, and it's been over 20 years. A family stayed intact, friendships stayed strong, no children were hurt, and I stayed out of it and let the situation resolve itself. People always say they'd want to know if it were their husband cheating, but I don't believe anyone really truly wants to know. It's too painful. And no good ever comes out of being the bearer of bad news. So my advice is to keep my mouth shut and pretend I never heard about it.
2007-09-17 12:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way !! I wouldnt tell her but i also wouldnt want my friend to tell me any details. I would not get involved, i would not want to hear about it. I wouldnt want to be put in a position where i have to choose between two friends...
But i still dont condone that kinda behavior !!! And if my friends tried to tell me "oh Amanda's husband is great in bed" i would give her a good talking to !!
2007-09-17 12:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I know I'd want to know. I guess I'd maybe tell my friend I suspected something and let the person find out on their own and tell the cheating friend I knew.( Yeah, exactly what fallout girl said is what I was trying to say.)
2007-09-17 12:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by LEMON the good life 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have any friends who are close enough that I would want to get involved with something like that. I am pretty good at minding my own business and keeping secrets
2007-09-17 12:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lose / lose situation. You would just have to decide which friend you would rather keep. I would tell though. I wouldn't want a friend I couldn't trust around my husband.
2007-09-17 12:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell. Or actually, I would "arrange" for my friend to catch them in the act. That way your hands are clean, but the truth is out. Let me know if you need some ideas.
2007-09-17 12:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ivana Cracker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the truth and stick to the facts I know for myself.
If you lose your friend, at least you will still be able to sleep soundly at night.
2007-09-17 12:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky5115 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on how close I am to husbands wife. If we're just acquaintances then it wouldnt be my place to say anything. She'll find out eventually. You dont want to feel stupid when she finds out and still stays with him...you'll just be known as the "snitch". Its hard.
2007-09-17 12:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes i'd tell her. i'd warn the cheaters i was going to tell and they had like till the end of the day to tell her i would. if u keep quiet and your friend finds out you knew but didn't tell her what kind of friend would you be. if this is a real question as in i know my m8's hubby is cheating then tell.
2007-09-17 12:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by strigoi12003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋