2007-09-17 04:34:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Both irritation and falling out of love, I am sure has the same effects and symptoms. But to differentiate the both, only time will do that. I can hate my husband one minute and see all he's done and feel the end upon us, but after words are spoken and space is given I find myself missing his kisses and our happy moments. In that moment I hate him, wish him the worst, wish him a future thats not with me. But as days progress that anger diminshes and I find myself thinknig and knowing that its to soon for the end. What defines a relationship isn't the good times, everyone has good times. What defines a relationship is the BAD times and how you get through them. Its so easy to forget why you stuck around so long and put up with so much, its so hard to differentiate what is lost love and what is love that you still have in your heart. Alll can feel lost at one moment but return in the next moment. If your irritated it will pass, sometimes a day, sometimes a week. But we are humans and thus have feelings. Anger doesn't just disappear, anger turns into grudges and as people we hold onto those grudges and use them for reason to stay mad, therfore bringing up these grudges intensifying fights. On yahoo answers everyone has read my problems and has told me to leave. so easy to say and even easier to listen to. Becuase in that moment you WANT people to tell you leave. You can play the victim or the enemy and thats the way relationships start and most of them ends. I hated my husband Friday today I can't stand not being around him and wish him so much. If you are irritated, it will feel like you are falling out of love. The only thing I can tell you is to look past the anger and the hate and try and remember why you are still there, being able to ask the question you have asked. Falling out of is so "easy" to do, but only in reality...it's not. You know when you have fallen out of love when you don't care, and it sounds like you stil do Anjel.
2007-09-17 08:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by jmalin04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends, is the irritation continuous or just here and there?? Is it little kinds of irritation or big ones?? Try to break it down to see if it's just little things that are not worth breaking up over or are they from larger things like you are changing and growing in your life and they are not. Each relationship is different. Can you see yourself without them or do you still feel that you need them there? Good Luck
2007-09-17 15:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that when one has reached a point where they have lost all respect for their spouse because of emotional or physical abuse, or by the complete dissension of unity within a marriage, the time may be at hand to try something different. Perhaps a trial separation might be worth some thought.
2007-09-17 12:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can see living your life WITHOUT the person you're with, than you're definitely falling out of love.
2007-09-17 11:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the word 'passion' conjures up pictures of knives or guns then it's more than irritation.
2007-09-17 11:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you don't even want your partner touching you.
2007-09-17 11:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋