how can i deal with british people trying to identify me as one of them when iam not?

Question

iam french, i was born in south east france and aim to immigrate from britain.
but alot of brits taunt me claiming like they know me personally, or feel as though they have place to comment about aspects about my life.
i can't avoid these people because their all around, outside in society...alot of brits seem to dont like me...or look at me with lingering looks.......but thats fine because i don't like them either and i find it hard not to show them contempt after the way theyve treated me here since i came here at 7 years old.

i aim to immigrate to the u.s or canada or another hot climate....but right now i feel stuck here in britain where i dont want to be.....because unfortunatly i have depression and psychological problems to deal with like anger and anxiety because of all the trauma ive survived here in britain.

one british girl taunted me and said i wouldnt get into america....and plus all americans would hate me and treat me like the brits do, because they like brits

now i feel miserable and depressed

can anyone help?
iam really bothered by how the brits are treating me.

iam trying to ignore it and go on with my life, but its hard

Answer 1

You must learn to let things roll off your back...these people obviously, like to really get to you...The girl said this to you, because she wanted to get a 'rise' out of you, and she has...you know that isn't true. The key here, is to be rational..it is just one person's opinion...just look at the kind of lies and attacks our President Bush has to withstand on a daily basis...I mean, no one is immured to stupidity

Answer 2

You need to gain more independence by doing things for yourself. I don't know how old you are, but what are your living situations? Who pays for what? Depression often happens when your personal needs are constantly denied by someone with power over you. You must get out of this situation. It will help for you to be in a more male environment.
As for the British thing, Do you have a Britt accent? If you do, you can't expect people to not think you are from Britain.
Very few people can tell the difference between French and British people, nor between Chinese and Korean people, although some can. However, most cannot.
You must do more things for yourself; everyday things and big things. Then you will feel stronger and you will be emotionally stronger (the emotions Can be like a muscle!)
and this is what you need to better deal with these things.

Answer 3

We have enough people with mental problems here in the states. Nobody hates you because you're french, It's your other problems that are causing you the trouble.

Answer 4

If you go to America go to NYC Miami or LA. The rest of America is lame and you won't like it and Europe is way better lol.

Answer 5

its time for you to pack your bags, earn some money and travel my fren....
during my travels across asia, i met plenty of backpackers young, old, (most european nationality) and almost all have agood story to tell...and all said ....
-this is what i have always wanted to do for a long time..
-wouldnt trade the experience for anything
try it and im sure its the shot that uv always wanted - the call of the nomads...

for extra pocket money u could teach french class...
some i met did just that

Answer 6

VIVE LA FRANCEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE,

ET VIVE LA REPUBLIQUE !!!!

ET VIVE LE QUEBEC LIBREEEEEE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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HI HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA