like calling you fat,or making fun of you because you cry and get updset...
2007-09-17 03:47:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they dont THINK before they do anything!Men act on impulse, whatever works for that moment. And if someone is acting like that towards YOU, then you need to leave that person ALONE because obviously they dont respect you
2007-09-17 03:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it sounds like from a psycological point of view is that he has deeper issue. This could extend from hearing is dad (or a father figure) saying this to his mom to be always put down by a parent. One of the most important thing in marriage that people often overlook is that you and your partner come into the marriage with issues from past relationship from friends & family. The key is how to get these issues on the table and then figure how how to come to terms with it. You hear communications but when you ask some one to explain this they only say you have to talk. WHat do you mean talk? talk about the things that are bothering you. Now the problem comes into does the other party hear what you are saying or interpeting what you saying based off of their own past. I could keep going on with this yet it will always come back to the issues from the past that were left unresolved. Find a Life Stategist (like Dr. Phil) or if you can find one progam offered by some churches is call Theophosic Ministries to help unravel the past and move into the future.
2007-09-17 04:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all say things when we are angry and they just come out and we have no control over them at that momet. Even though whe we think about them we are sorry but sometimes it is to late. making fun of someone is not a nice thing to do but we all do it . There are many ways to hurt some one.
get over this and know that you are loved and somone loves you more than them. god loves you no matter what.
best of luck
2007-09-17 03:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is most likely very insecure about himself...so making you cry or making fun of you - in a twisted way makes him feel better about himself...don't put up with this...(if you are with a man like this)..you deserve to be treated with love...
2007-09-17 03:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be because the man in question is an insensitive jerk who gets his kicks from saying hurtful things to other people!
2007-09-17 03:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by cautious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men do understand that to speak without thinking is like shooting a gun without aiming. This guy has a personal problem. You do not have a gender problem.
2007-09-17 03:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is something he really wanted to say, he really wanted you to know what he thought. But was just to insensitive to word it a little nicer.
2007-09-17 03:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by jlcjills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because that is what he really meant to say and had no intentions of stopping him,self before saying it.
2007-09-17 03:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do this. My hubby doesn't. I know plenty of men that don't. We as women have to watch what we say to. I know women who are meaner to their men then that. lol.. (but really I WOULD want to know if my hubby thought I was fat!)
2007-09-17 03:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to do as much damage as he possibly can at that moment which shows he's not that concerned about you or your feelings. If you react, he'll do it time and again.
2007-09-17 03:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by ReBelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋