i mean i have enough things to be mad at and sort feel like brushing this one off. just wanted to know your opinions on this one i guess. okay i was telling my friend this serious issue. that i was going through sort of a rough time in my life. and he sort just took it as a joke. then hes like god your so emo. im like listen jerk your the one that asked whats wrong, so im telling you. and im not emo, everyone goes through rough times in their lives. what ever maybe i took it to personally. what do you think?
2007-09-17 02:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i am pretty mad but just more mad at other things at the moment. i guess it just bothered me , since he's suppose to be a friend and all.
2007-09-17 02:59:54 · update #1
lol ha your guys are giving him way to much credit. he knew it was serious. and he was talking in a serious way. he understood the problem and decided that it would be funny to call me emo becuase he felt like making himself laugh.
2007-09-17 03:04:23 · update #2
I think I would have been a bit upset too! I mean you were just trying to vent your feelings and after all he did ask! But dont pay it any attention...I am going through some really hard times myself! But thats neither here nor there! Just dont worry about it or you'll get yourself too stressed and that is not good either! Then you will have a melt down! Sit by yourself and have some alone time! You will feel better then! Good luck and if you ever wanna talk...just email me! TTYL!
2007-09-17 03:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've definitely got the right to be mad. He just keeps blowing off everyting you say...and this time hes got no excuse. He knew how serious your issue was...Maybe hes the type of kid who hasnt had any real problems yet, so its possible he didnt know how to deal with what you were saying. Or hes just a jerk.Either way, make sure you let him know that hes hurt you, let him know how mad you are...then maybe next time he wont take everything so lightly.
2007-09-17 13:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Adorkable 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we all over react to a situation, and its down to our mood at the time, sometimes you can brush them off, other times things upset you that normally wouldnt, your friend obviously didnt realize this was a time when you were really ticked off, dont make even more drama, we've all had a light hearted approach to a problem we didnt understand, if he continues to be insensitive to your needs, time to find a new friend to confide in, good luck
2007-09-17 10:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go. Like you said, you've got enough going on that's roughened up your life already. So why add that useless emotion anger to the load? It just drags you down and makes you feel like crap on top of everything else.
2007-09-17 10:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let little things like that get to you. You're friend just seems a little too insensitive to your feelings right now. Try talking to someone that you know will understand where you are coming from. I sure hope that times get better for you.
2007-09-17 10:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by astroeyes2000 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you did not take it "TOO" personal. It was a problem of yours and to you it's important. Don't tell him your problems again, even if he asks.
I doubt if he's looking beyond his own self centered self. My youngest brother is the same way. It's always all about him. And my problems are just nothing..I usually stay away from my brother, because if I'm having problems, he tends to make me feel worse instead of better.
2007-09-17 10:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
aww hunni.. Yeah i would be kinda mad on my friend if he would do that.. My friend knows that its so hard for me right now.. cos i have a problem with a guy that broke my heart.. and i almost got over him, but she started 2 messin around about him and 2 always telling me about him.. And i was like "oh come on! u know how hard is it for me!" and she still was like "oh yeah yeah blah blah blah! stop it Nina! im fed up of that" and she never takes my problems serious.. and its always upsetting me so much.. she still doesnt take that thing with that guy serious...
2007-09-17 11:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you took it personally. if this person was a real friend, he would actually consider your problems instead of writing them off as you being emotional. real friends listen and lend an ear when you need them, even if they dont really understand your problem. them seeing you upset should be enough to make them be concerned.
2007-09-17 10:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by SiberianBlood 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be, he's an idiot for saying that but no point getting mad over it...
I don't share my problems with my friends, I know they won't understand
2007-09-17 10:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he shouldn't have asked you a serious question and replied in a joking manner...I'd be angry at him too, that was very immature of him.
Just tell him how childish he acted
2007-09-17 09:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋