2007-09-17 01:53:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
bring HIM on
2007-09-17 01:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking 'we can pick absolutely anyone' ? Cause is we could, it'd have to be someone like Brad Pitt. *drool*
If it had to be someone real... I would prefer another guy with me and hubby, but I think I could go either way really. We could go to a club and see if there was a good one (m or f) or possibly go to a meeting website, and look for someone interested in couples.
This is all just theoretical, I don't think I would actually ever do this. But, in the spirit of the question, those are the things i would say.
2007-09-17 09:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by A derka der 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does the wife want to add a 3rd or is that just you wanting another person in your bed. If she is cool with experimenting, it is always easier if the 3rd is a guy. I believe because another women in her bed could be intimidating to her as far as performance looks ect. Remember this too guy, you better pay extra attention to your partner at all times one wrong move and disaster. Ground rules are always good too. Such as no kissing. I hope you have fun. But I would try to spice it up with out a 3rd person 1rst. Make sure this is what you Both want! O.K.
2007-09-17 09:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by mary c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm not enough woman for you?" That would be my first response. That is like walking a tightrope my dear. That is opening up a BIG can of worms. Get my drift? So many things can go wrong in that situation. I have seen a few divorces come out of it. How will you feel if you sort of get put out in left field while this woman and your husband are so into what they are doing? How will you feel if he is more turned on by this other woman than he is with you? What if he does things to her that he wouldn't do to you? What if they keep seeing each other without your knowledge? Sounds like trouble to me.
2007-09-17 09:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he already has someone in mind....have a cute girlfriend he's been looking at?
Was he looking for a male or female? Although I think I know the answer to this
2007-09-17 09:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends do you mean just for sex? or for a girlfriend?
I know some women would be cool with it, others would have to think about it but still others would want to beat the man for even thinking it.
2007-09-17 09:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to find that fun??
I don't. I guess it's because it's not my cup of tea, and besides, I wouldn't just say: yes please and clapp my hands like he's letting me pick the car he wants to offer me!!
In things that concern both of us, I don't think I'd let him patronize me or just go ahead with something just because he's been good enough to give the go ahead!
Pfff!!!!
2007-09-17 09:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say Hell No, this is not my view of a marriage and I'd walk away just like I did. If that's what he needs to be happy, fine, go find it, but not with me.
2007-09-17 10:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lady G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him noway. I'm open to a lot of things, but not a 3rd person, male or female. Their are just some lines that I won't cross.
2007-09-17 08:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you how you want to handle this but you can take it from people that have been through it already...Once you open up your sex life like that there's no going back and eventually you will ruin your marriage.
However your going to do what you want anyway.
2007-09-17 09:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are one thing but to actually follow through is another. I would ask if he is serious or not. If he is, then you need to ask yourself what is lacking in your relationship. another man or woman brought into your bed will only cause more problems.
2007-09-17 09:01:42 · answer #11 · answered by K M 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋