I can't try for a baby until a yet to be decided month next year. I feel so naked without a pregnant belly and totally left out of all the conversations! How do I still be around my friends without wishing I was pregnant with them?
2007-09-17 00:27:38 · 8 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yeah they are all on their second child, I have wanted my second child for about 6 months but my husband isn't ready, we are much better off financially and everything than all my friends and it confuses me that he thinks we aren't ready, if we aren't ready then how are my friends all ready?
2007-09-17 00:37:59 · update #1
I am in the (nearly) exact same position only I have 2 and want a 3rd and final baby but hubby keeps saying not yet or maybe not at all. ours are 5 and 2 1/2 and I want another one now so that I don't have a big gap inbetween 2 and 3.
5 people I know are pregnant, one of which is my bestfriend that I see every second day and it is so hard to see her belly growing (she is 23wks now) and not want have one just like it! The horrible part is I was having trouble with my IUD and had to have it taken out on friday and now I am so tempted to just fall pregnant and he will have to lump it! He hasn't said anything about going on the pill again yet though so I don't know what is going on and I can't get a straight answer out of him. He keeps saying money money but we already havfe everything we need and some for a baby so its not going to cost us much more. I breastfeed and use cloth so whats the problem!!!! Argghhh
Sorry to go on! I try as hard as possible to just be content watching my friends bellies grow and wish them all the luck and when it finally is my time, I'll be the only one pregnant and I'll get all the attention instead! Its so hard but unfortunately we just have to wait!
Best of luck and I hope hubby gives you the green light soon!
2007-09-17 00:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the female pal needs to tell the fiance the reality. the marriage could be a huge mistake whether this is in line with lies. she must be trouble-free approximately it. If the guy extremely loves her he would settle for the toddler besides. a actual gentleman could. Have a sturdy communicate together with her, attempt to speak some experience into her. If she would be in a position to no longer pay attention i could pass to the boyfriend and tell him. he would be attentive to some thing is up while the toddler comes too early yet weighs 9 lb. DNA try will tutor he's not the daddy. She ought to tell him now. I definitely have a feeling he will marry her besides.
2016-11-14 16:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by jetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way, also an undesclosed month next year! such a load of bull! really!! anyway dont buy a pet it doesnt work and its not the same, i have 3 dogs 4 cats and african grey and fish and i still feel empty, i must say they do make me feel better when im at home but at work i would love to carry around a budding belly!!! it would be sooo nice
2007-09-17 00:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by momma-to-morgan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well what ever you do dont become preganant just because your friends are.. remember once you have a child you pretty much have to devote your life to them, enjoy not having kids while you can, travel, hang out with other friends, do something for you!!!
2007-09-17 00:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have one child. be glad all the pregnancy stuff is behind you and focus on your daughter. you aren't out of the conversations because you've been through it all before.
2007-09-17 00:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a puppy. Pets are so much better than children anyways.
2007-09-17 00:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Megegie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Put a pillow in your dress, and change it once in a while. you got Cassie!, what else do you want?
2007-09-17 00:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dragon'sFire 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would hope you want a kid for the reason of giving life... not fitting in.
if your doing it to fit in that might be a weird conversation later on in life hahahah
Mom - "You were a fit in baby"
Child - "WTF"
2007-09-17 00:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Madrox 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋