There's a male I'm acquainted to through work and this means that we sometimes meet to discuss issues concerning work. With time we have began talking casually a little bit. When I am near this male he is tough and well composed almost to the point of never laghing or smiling. But I've noticed that whenever we have to communicate via telephone he becomes very nervous that it affects his speech. He quite simply becomes a very different person from the one I know through face to face contact. What exactly is going on here/inside him/with him?
2007-09-17 00:09:15 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs. Midnightbully 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Thanks y'all. I have never called him, he caIls me when there's something to discuss. I'm not a phone person.
2007-09-17 00:33:45 · update #1
The problem is that nervousness is contagious sometimes and it has happened that he has made me nervous too when he acts like this.
2007-09-17 00:39:04 · update #2
Wow, it's quite encouraging to learn from some of you that he might be interested. it's never wrong to be attractive to somebody. I'm already in a very good mood.
2007-09-17 00:52:01 · update #3
it sounds like he is trying to play the macho real man theme, when he calls you he is off and wants to be person and gets nervous because he really likes you but doesn't have to play his theme on the phone. he is trying to impress you in public.
2007-09-17 02:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by nocateman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are meeting to discuss issues concerning work while there are other people present then perhaps this is why he is so tough and well composed. Perhaps when it is a one-to-one discussion he is nervous and it sounds as though he might be attracted to you. It sounds a bit odd really.
2007-09-17 00:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Papooselet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is putting on his work ethic act in one area. The other personal areas of his life he has not put on an act. I other words, he is being real. He is being careful about what he says. He does not want to say the wrong thing that might cause you to dislike him. Obviously, he is in his own element at work and has practiced it. He is off balance in his personal life and needs to practice...with a very patient person that he knows will be careful with his feelings and creates a safe place for him to be himself. Nice job if you can get it...lucky girl. NV
2007-09-17 00:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by NITA E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one of those guys who is unsure of himself and puts on a nice big act to cover his insecurity in public. It just doesn't work on the phone for him. Don't get involved with someone you work with - it's a minefiled. Anyway he sounds like a rather miserable git to me and if he'd been at all interested in you, you'd know by now through those casual chats.
2007-09-17 00:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by chris n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM WE ARE NOT PHYSCHOLOGISHTS
but
he may like you
or cant talk over the fone
i would guess maybe both or maybe that hes nervous over talking on the fone as most guys are really esp to a girl
2007-09-17 00:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he's married/in a relationship and gets nervous when you call him
OR
Maybe he's just not very good on the phone
2007-09-17 00:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go on a date,out of the workplace.
2007-09-17 00:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people dont do well on the phone.
2007-09-17 00:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Bob D 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋