When having intercourse....?

Question

it hurts so much that i cant bare with the pain like it hurts deep inside like if i have something there not when the penis is entering nor am i dry i've been to doctors and they tell me everything is okay they dont know what the problem is but today i had a headache and my boyfriend gave me vicodin ( only thing he had) and wow i didnt feeelll no pain what so ever (only good pain lol) i've been searching online to see what i could have but no answers .....im going to another doc next monday hopefully he has the answer i wonder if it would help by me tellin him the pain was gone when i took that pill omgg thank good for that lol this is more like a statement but i would like some opinions

I don't usually have cramps during my period but i do feel bloated and the urge to pee a lot and i also have a pain on my upper abdominal on the left side i did an ultrasound and nothing showed up

Answer 1

Painful sexual intercourse, called dyspareunia in medical terminology ; is a common complaint among women seeking gynecological care. Many women report occasional pain with intercourse, but some women have pain with every episode of sexual relations. Although it may take a few visits to a gynecologist or other health care provider experienced in women's health, the cause of dyspareunia can usually be identified and treated.


There are three main types of painful intercourse. Perhaps the least common is pain that occurs only after intercourse or orgasm. This can be due to uterine contractions from orgasm. Women with this problem may get relief by taking medications like ibuprofen before intercourse, which can block pain from uterine contractions.


Another source of this type of pain is an allergy to semen, which is actually quite uncommon. After her partner ejaculates there can be an intense burning sensation and redness around the vagina and vulva (the outer "lips" of the vagina). There have actually been a few reported cases of women going into shock after sexual intercourse due to an allergy to semen.


A third cause of pain after intercourse is a vaginal infection, such as a yeast infection, which can cause a burning sensation within the vagina due to irritation.


Pain immediately upon penetration or touching the outer lips of the vagina can be caused by a variety of medical problems. For example, herpes infections cause blisters which are very tender to the touch. A scrape or small cut at the entrance to the vagina can create pain.


Some women have a hymen that does not completely resolve after their first few attempts at intercourse, which can cause an intensely painful sensation upon penetration. Some infections, such as yeast infections or bacterial vaginosis, create irritation of the vulvar or vaginal tissue, leading to immediate pain with sex.


And, dermatological conditions such as squamous hyperplasia or lichen sclerosus may cause damage to the vulvar skin, making it tender to the touch. Inadequate lubrication may also cause pain. The diagnosis of these conditions requires a thorough gynecologic exam, and, in a few cases, a small biopsy of the skin using local anesthesia in the office.

Another problem that can cause entry pain is vaginismus, where the vaginal muscles contract involuntarily, making penetration extremely painful or impossible. This may be due to a subconscious response to prior pain, where the body tries to protect itself from pain by "closing off" the vagina, or may be due to psychological pain, in women who have an abuse history or who are fearful of sexual activity. As with any condition with a potential psychological component; anxiety might be a cause.

Treatment for these conditions is antibiotics for infection, steroid creams for the dermatological problems, a vaginal dilator or minor surgery for a partially intact hymen, and counseling and vaginal dilators for vaginismus. Lack of lubrication can be treated with water-based lubricants (NOT Vaseline, which may be harmful to vaginal tissues).


Probably the most common type of pain with intercourse is "deep thrust" dyspareunia, where deep penile penetration causes pain. This is common during passionate sexual relations, and can come and go depending on the position used during intercourse. Many conditions can cause this type of pain, including a prolapsed uterus (where the cervix and uterus are "falling out" of the vagina due to relaxation of the tissues that hold them up within the vagina), a "fallen bladder" due to childbirth, scar tissue around the uterus or ovaries (called adhesions), an ovarian cyst (although this is an uncommon cause of such pain), large uterine fibroids (non-cancerous tumors of the uterus), and endometriosis, a condition where tiny implants of blood from the uterus stick to the female organs and cause pain. or a retroverted uterus.



Many women suffer from irritable bowel syndrome, and intercourse can cause the uterus to hit the intestines, causing pain. Medical studies have shown that many women with this condition are reluctant to engage in sexual relations due to fear of pain or accidental release of gas or feces during intercourse.


Some of these causes of deep-thrust dyspareunia are difficult to diagnose, and may require multiple exams and even outpatient laparoscopic surgery.

Laparoscopy, sometimes called "belly button surgery" is an outpatient surgery where a lighted tube is inserted into the belly button to directly view the internal pelvic (female) organs to diagnose and treat problems.



In summary, a number of conditions can cause painful intercourse. Contrary to popular belief, psychological causes are very unusual, and medical causes are usually the culprit.


Therefore, women experiencing painful intercourse on a regular basis should seek the care of a gynecologist or other women's health care provider with experience in painful intercourse. With a little detective work and cooperation between the patient and her doctor, treatment can be provided that will lead to a more healthy and enjoyable sex life.


If you have to constantly take Vicodin to engage in and even enjoy sex, then maybe, you're not ready for sex. Maybe, you should refrain until you're ready. If your boyfiend respects you, he should respect your wishes. He shouldn't rush you. He should be more gentle and patient. Sometimes, sex is purely for a man's pleasure.

Answer 2

I am experiencing pain with sex all the time too and am at the point of not having sex anymore because of the pain it is causing both during and after sex.

Endometriosis could be a cause for painful sex. Do you have any other symptoms such as intense period cramping and pain or pain with bowel movements?

I would recommend getting in to see your doctor or gyneacologist for further evaluation. I'm currently waiting to have a laparoscopy done to see whether I infact have endometriosis as my doctor and gyno suspect.

Here is a site where you can go have a look at and find out more about endometriosis (it has some great links and info):

http://www.endometriosisassn.org/

Feel free to email me (the link to my email is in my profile) if you want to know any further information. Good luck :)

Answer 3

I used to have this problem. Sex was painful not because of a physical problem but because of what I was thinking mentally. Sometimes if a person has past trauma or if they have had bad sexual experiences it can cause them to feel pain when there really isn't any...hope this helps

Answer 4

Make your partner use a penis skin moisturizer called Man1 Man Oil once a day. Turns out that dry patches of skin in my penis were irritating my girlfriends vagina. Now that I am using this creme once a day, her discomfort is gone and our sex life has improved immensely. You can get this creme online. It's good stuff.

Answer 5

You can reduce the pain considerably if you have sexual play prior to inserting the penis in the vagina. Play with his penis, clay with your boobs etc. I mean sufficiently arouse sexual feelings and enough lubrication will help.

Answer 6

I think you have a sensitive cervix.
I also think that vicodin is a very strong painkiller - and addictive too. So be careful.

Answer 7

Good girl! Narcotics and penis!

You're a keeper!

Answer 8

Spend so much time on foreplay and check yourself with finger if you are completely wet then have him inside you.

Answer 9

U may be having the "Dry Va_ina" syndrome. Have plenty of Forepaly, may see a porno movie just before & Use "KY-jelly", while sex.

Answer 10

i have endometriosis and sounds like what i have