I just found out he was having sex with different gals that he knew from bars. The moment that I saw him and a gal lying in bed, I was shocked. I am totally lost. Dunt know what to do now.
2007-09-16 21:25:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How could you even say you "dunt" know what to do now? I mean, what do you think? What would you tell a sister or best friend? It's a classic no-brainer, here....
2007-09-16 21:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Honeyface 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all hope your not still with him? if he loved you he wouldnt hurt you like that!
not to mention the risks of having sex with other people..who knows how many others there are.U should pay a visit to the docs better to be on the safe side!Any how you'l figure when time passes that you are indeed better off without him,be strong...i know from past xperience HE'S A LOSER!!!
2007-09-16 21:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM unless you have no self esteem and no self respect then you will be his door mat and he will walk all over you forever and ever and ever and he will always sleep with other women and you will always feel like a worthless piece of Sh*t .... If your smart GET OUT NOW ... I hope you know your worth more than that but if u have to ask i wonder.... be a real women and kick that dirt bag to the curb please!
2007-09-20 21:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kristie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that... i no that its not a nice feeling... being confused on top of it can b easy.... i dont no what you should do... i think you should leave him but i guess it depends on the situation do you hav kids can you forgive him... do you really love him or is it a passing thing.... pretty much is this guy really worth all the heart ache and pain he will cause you if you stay and find out he has done it again
2007-09-16 23:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest that you confront him first and ask him why he's doing that. Afterwards, leave the relationship. If he wants you back, stay away because most likely, he'll repeat cheating on you. If you really want him back, try to think of the risks (venereal diseases, emotional problems) that you'll have.
2007-09-16 21:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Chuchai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off , now. You dont want this or need this. Dont let it become a story like mine, many years ago.....dont let it become a husband you catch in bed with another gal.
2007-09-16 21:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by skyward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him end it now before he can come up with some BS excuse and turn it on you. You deserve better than that finds someone who truly cares and respects you.
2007-09-16 21:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop him, that's horrible of him to do that to you. Make sure he hasn't giving you any nasty STD's. You can do much better then that, leave him behind and never look back. You will be much happier and he will probably end up miserable.Good luck!
2007-09-16 21:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious? Just head the opposite direction and get on with your life. You deserve more than what he will ever be able to offer!
2007-09-17 03:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ouuta of the rship get ur health checked and move on
He has no respect for you ,,cant you tell he is all about his
sex prowresssss and he will get vd or aids
2007-09-16 21:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by debbi67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋