my partner is so strict. He treated me like a kid. I dont have the right to do my own thing. He always blamed me. And he told me that i'm insecure and he's not insecure. I couldnt go out with friends w/o his permission. All my friends are good. I dont go with friends who are bad influence. Most of my friends are girls. And i dont go with a guy friend. He get mad also the way i dressed, well infact, i am just wearing with sleeves and just bit fitting shirt, for him, i'm provoking guys.My goodness, i dont wear mini skirt, shorts, i'm just wearing that in a swimming pool bec. i'm not allowed to wear swimsuit, i could wear swim suit but not backless or clevege not showing, and wear a short on it. Im just like a prison.I couldnt go out with him with the clothes that he wanted. And the part thingnthat i dont really like is he wants me to be fat not only fat very fat. He told me i could wear what i like if im already fat. The worst thing is he's violent.
2007-09-16 21:24:41 · 10 answers · asked by angel love-love is blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's an insecure control freak who needs to make you feel bad in order for him to feel good about himself. Get out of that relationship NOW!! You deserve better than this in life. A loving partner who loves you totally and completely as a woman and a partner would never treat you with such cruelty and disrespect. And you should NEVER accept violence in your life. This man is not worthy of you!
2007-09-16 23:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by cautious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner is emotionally and physically abusive towards you. If you live anywhere in the developed world, you should probably call the police and get him thrown in jail on domestic abuse. I would then get a restraining order against him and file for divorce, so let's hope he is a rich man so you can take him for what he's worth and teach him a lesson. No one deserves to be abused or treated how you describe, so stand up for yourself. Finally, when all is said and done get yourself some counselling so that you can empower yourself against such relationships. You deserve to be respected. Good luck!
2007-09-16 21:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your "partner" is showing all the classic symptoms of an abuser:
- controlling
- critical
- violent
- jealous
- insecure
- trying to convince you that it is you and not him
I say RUN, don't walk, away from this guy as fast as you can. His behavior will only worsen over time. There is nothing that you can do to change him. Get out while you can!
2007-09-16 21:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Theresa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's controlling you, and it definitely sounds like he's the insecure one. And if he's being violent towards you, you should definitely get yourself out of this dangerous situation. Tell a relative or friend that you trust, and get as much help as you can! You deserve better than this.
2007-09-16 21:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Amelia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit. You know you can do better. Have some self-respect. Or just stay with him in your abusive relationship.
2007-09-16 21:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mike H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just dump the pig his whole aim is to make you unhappy there is someone waiting for you out there
2007-09-16 21:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count on this: he will abuse you thoroughly before it is all said and done. Mark my words and get the hell out of that relationship NOW!
2007-09-16 21:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Honeyface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you chose this person as a partner for what reason? Partnership = equality.
2007-09-17 01:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Barney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you put up with his B S , Find someone else that will treat you right
2007-09-16 23:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talk to him..Tell him what u think n how u feel. If he still treat u da same n wont change just D-U-M-P him..
2007-09-16 21:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by wawa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋