We both go to a Christian College, and she had a spiritual attack a month ago, and that following weekend she went to a friend's house, and since then, she has been ignoring me and asked me to stay out of her life, because our friendship was unhealthy. I don't know what went wrong or what to do. She was fine with me until she went to her friend's house, and after she got there she had been ignoring me. I'm afraid her friend gave her advice to stay away from me, but I don't know why she'd do that. We were inseparable, and it's killing me to not be friends with her. Do I just move on, or try to be friends again, even though she acts like I don't exsist?
2007-09-16 19:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by 1798m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her why she feels that your relationship was unhealthy. Ask he if there is something you can do to continue your friendship. Are you are willing to make concessions for the friendship, or do you think that she may be wrong in her new way of thinking.? If you feel that she is looking at things the wrong way now, you may need to move on.
2007-09-16 19:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation its an ugly feeling and it hurts Try writing her a letter asking her why? What did you do to her ? BUt I wouldnt call her and if she doesnt respond just let it go I know it bugs you but she already said she doesnt want to be friends the least she couldve done was be a woman and tell u why A true friend doesnt do that dont beg her you are better than that. Good luck to you
2007-09-16 19:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 16:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by chatan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to friends anymore than there's really nothing you can do. Maybe you can call her and ask her why she's acting like this. But if she doesn't want you to contact her I don't she'll answer. It's sad, but it's best to move on and make new friends =/
2007-09-16 19:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friendship go and if it is meant to be she will come back if not keep moving forward with your life remember the saying friends are like buses you miss one you can get another because a friend in need is a friend indeed.
2007-09-16 19:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by charie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knwo how you feel this reminds me of my first love he started to ignore me and not return my phone calls and he said he didnt want to ve friends with me anymore so i stopped calling and moved on i know it might be hard but i think you should call all of your guy friends and just go out and have sum fun and give it time and just move on you canr make someone do something they dont want to do so trying wil only hurt you more and if she really likes you and she is your soulmate she will come back to you
2007-09-16 19:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stuff like this happens alot. just ask her what you did. if she wont in person get on myspace, facebook, write a note, a text message something and say something like, "i know your not happy with me but why cant we talk? i miss how we used to be..."
i did that with one of my friends and now we're friends again and talk and walk and text and do something everyday. if you think its a friendship that you dont want to end then dont end it.
2007-09-16 19:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do so much on your part to remain friends. She has to want to be your friend too. You can always keep the door open for her and maybe she will come to her senses.
2007-09-16 19:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by TARA B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"spiritual attack"? what's that?
if she doesn't want to be friends anymore, then move on. leave her alone, or you will piss her off move, and she'll distance herself even more. drop it, and maybe you'll become friends again.
2007-09-16 19:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋