Guys checking out other women ?

Question

Why do guys think its ok to check out women all the time and women find this so offensive... If girls looked at other guys all the time guys wouldn't not get offended... Why do women think so differently ?

Answer 1

firstly women tend to be more subtle about, rather than guys, who, in my experience, groan, stare, trip over something large, or start dribbling (lol).
i feel its an insult cause if he's with me, when he does it, its saying, wow, i wish i was with her instead of you. she is so much hotter than you. women compare themselves to other women, and men tend to have a history of cheating more than women (yeah i know, rash generalisations here). so we feel threatned that if a woman could make him fall over so easily, just by looking at her, what would happen if she actually talked to him. he would be in her pants in a second.

Answer 2

"If girls looked at other guys all the time guys wouldn't ... get offended..."

Really? You know, I don't think that's true. While there is some consensus that, as a generalization, men and women think differently, I think you'd be hard-pressed to convince many guys of that statement there. You'd have to convince me, for starters. : |

May God bless you.

Answer 3

Hey.. well we girls like that other guys check us out.. who doesn´t, but there is something that is different from some guys. I mean at least for me it´s ok that they check me out but what bugs me is the way they do, for example... it is ok when a guy looks at you in a nice way (not meaning by this that every guys is going to like you) just not in a "pervert" or "ugly" way. A guy can go ahead and look at me but not just stare at some body parts.

We do check guys all the time, but most of the guys don´t even notice it.. lol.. at least my friends and I, when we look at guys we normally comment about them but not in their face (not always).

I believe that makes a lot of difference, between guys checking out girls and girls checking out guys. Hope it helps.

Answer 4

Usually, for me at least, its the "way" my guy looks at other women. Makes me feel like for some reason I am not good enough, even though I think I am and I do all I can for him. Females are very cut-throat when it comes to other females and their men. Sorry, thats just the way it is.

Answer 5

Men do this disrespectful gesture simply because they just don't think! They always do this I feel because they simply don't pay attenion to **** but ***, titties, and money. I'm find with that because I do the same as far men, money, and more. Women think and sneek and look because we don't want to make the male feel inferior ( the one we are with) . We also feel it's disrespectful to a certain degree. Guilty pleasures

Answer 6

Not all women think like this. When a woman looks good, she deserves the attention.

I don't mind at all when my guy looks at other women.

Answer 7

Men are very very visual, of course they look. One need not to gawk, or foam at the mouth, or just stare at the fake boobs. A women should not be jealous, after all they are with you...We look but can hide it better ads we give a quick glance and do not leer....

Answer 8

Looking isn't the bad thing. The bad thing is when your looking and you make eye contact with each other and keep looking into there eyes. That is most offensive to me. My ex woman used to do that, not just look at there body but into this strange dudes eyes, thats what i did not like.

Answer 9

I don't know...I have women check me out all the time, it doesn't really matter. People have to check each other out. I do it all the time just to get ideas fashion wise.

Answer 10

It's a double standard. Although I'm usually like, "Ooh, she's pretty, I wish I had her butt, how big are her boobs?" But women are very moody. One minute they're fine with it and the next they'll throw a drink in your face. Women are crazy, but we do make the rules.