Can I ask you this question : how many times have you...?

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fear and worry about things or people that matter most to you but never really happen or not in the way you think? And that may have cause a strain in the relationship?

We may think so much and become negative and paranoid, and this may result that we even carry forth these thinking into our sleep or even short rest.

That is no point in fearing these because they may never happen or the probability is very low. Even if they do, we should focus on remedy instead of retaliation.

Negative speculation leads to no way but ruins while positive thinking helps to build a good relationship. Why focus on negatives while you still have time to cultivate a healthy relationship? Never let the worst consequence be your lifelong regret.

May you always look at the bright side of life :) and remember all of us have cycles of ups and downs in our life but the most important thing is to lead a healthy mental life :)

Good luck!

Answer 1

i deal with worry everyday because my hubby is currently deployed...thanks for helping me to remain positive =)

Answer 2

geez you sound like that commercial where that women is lecturing about not to smoke that it was not healthy
asking the person to promise they won;t and when
the camera showed the person she was talking too
it turned out to be an infant in the high chair,,,
loving all the attention mommy was showing him,,
gurgling in happiness as for the attention he was getting
Realy,,????? Ga-Ga,,,!!

Answer 3

I completely agree, and by the way, I've done it zero times.
keep up the good work.

Answer 4

That was a nice speech. Good luck to you, too.

Answer 5

yep, i have a bad habit of worrying myself sick.

Answer 6

Yes you can ask that question

Answer 7

when i worry i pray i pray everyday

Answer 8

bravo! next...