Why do successful women over 30 have trouble finding a decent man?

Question

My theories:
A. Men not as successful will be too intimidated. Ex: A man with no degree will assume a woman with a degree will not be interested in him. Men with a degree may feel that a woman without one will be more impressed.
B. Men who are as successful and over 30 have more options. Therefore, why date a 30 year old when he can get a 20 year old?
C. Men think, "If she's over 30, and still hasn't married, then she's waiting for someone I'm not. I better try for a less successful girl."

This is the part where you women think I'm a pig.
I only date much younger women because I'm getting a macabre form of revenge against women my age. In fact, I flaunt it. I remember the games, runarounds, and rejections when I was in my teens and early 20s. Men, you can agree or disagree. Ladies, I believe you get nicer with age because your looks can't bail you out of trouble anymore.

Then again, let's not forget all of the men in first world countries who marry all of these third world women.

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Answer 1

Trust an old battle axe former player who's studied this for years. Best advice from one bro to another who figured out this scam long ago:

Its not intimiation. It's preference. Men by nature need to "protect and provide" for women. Thats why statistically 9/10 men marry down. It's in our genetics and the reason our species survived until today. (women and children first, no women in the war is how we historically treated them.)

20 year old women:
You date 20 year old women because you can - and because your smart enough to avoid coming home to a nagging career ***** who needs a daily fight to cleanse her ongoing job frustrations. The same type of women still believes in the mytical feminist crap she can cut it like a man. These types are full of personal demons, not by choice, but by social indoctrination (media, school, gov't, etc) that sold them a lie.

Thats why CEO's are more likely to marry their secretaries over their equil counterparts. (Secretaries are better equiped to rear children and care for their man.)

9/10 Women marry up for 1 reason: Ensure they will be safe and cared for during child rearing times. Many women relate better to small children because they're genetically programmed to think more like children (estrogen = emotion etc.) Thats why 911 flight recordings reveal men shouting orders to stop terrorists and women screaming and crying like children for the men to protect them.

Women over 30:
2 problems:
A - we don't want them because they won't make good wives.
B - they'll never find happiness because a feminist society has programed them with Unrealistic Expectations.
C - they don't need us as protector because we live in a semi-police state that considers them angels, and us criminals.
D - they don't need us a provider because we've been replaced with Child support, alimony, 50% of our assets, mother allowance, and welfare.
E - almost 8/10 women now initiate divorce. The divorce rate is now 60%.
F - Women act nicer over 30? Yes, but its only part of a dog and pony show act until they have their name on 50% of your assets. They are just smarter than the young ones, and as you correctly state "are forced to be nicer due to aging looks.
G - we come back to the 9/10 women marry up theme. Women over 30 simply do not choose men who are below them. (economically etc.)

Your a male Pig?
Typical female shaming tactics thrown your way when logical discussion won't get them out of the corner you put them in. The very term male pig chavenist (etc) is sexist.

Revenge?
Absolutly. Avoid educated women like the plague. The educational system (womens studies) is a religious cult - man hating institution run and controlled by man hating lesbo's.

Everything you want as a man is natural, and if I took you to China, Indonesia, and Vietnam, you'd be blown away at the peaceful men and women who cherish each other for their strengths. Western society has sold us a lie.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

Consider that it took a certain focus and effort to become successful - developing those skills may have taken the particular person out of the loop for developing their 'finding a decent man' skills. More to the point, it kept them out of the places where people go to pick up girls... (you don't get much studying done at a bar)

Another critical element is that people in general are more grown-up in their thirties - they think differently and are possibly more likely to be "ok" with following their other interests as opposed to doing the family thing. The human animal is programmed to find a mate and reproduce around age 14 and begins to taper off from that programming around age 19 or so...

Finally, I'd suggest that the game changes when people are more established -- everyone getting out of high school has pretty close to no assets and most likely no real estate. At that point its all potential. Once a person (male or female) has established themselves with a house and a 401k, there is more risk associated with relationships - therefore there may be more caution. Also - those that haven't established themselves by that point are not likely to be considered - if for no other reason than you won't encounter them in the same workplaces and other social circles.

Answer 5

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Answer 7

Good men who are in their 30's (upstanding professionals with careers) don't want a successful professional +30's career woman. They are the women who think they can have it all. Men of this caliber are in extremely high demand and can get a trophy wife in her 20's.

Answer 8

I think both women and men, given the chance, would gravitate toward someone younger (except for me--and that's the truth). A successful woman in her 30's wouldn't be all that much different from a successful woman of any decade. Maybe all of us want someone who doesn't look "our" age, so we can think of ourselves as being younger than we are. And it will all end with the phrase: "We need to talk." Is there any statement that strikes fear in the heart of men more than this one? I think not. And every woman, of every age and affluence, uses it. It makes me shudder just wondering who might say it next.

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Answer 10

Their standards are too high, for the most part. There just aren't enough single guys around that meet their standards. With a shortage of available men, naturally they have a harder time finding one. Ask yourself, when was the last time you seriously date an ugly decent guy? Or was there even a first time?

Answer 11

Cause they are getting too old for child bearing. And a woman over thirty, normally, is way too over the hill for a young man especially. Men usually want women younger than themselves. Older men might want a you child bearing woman; a real firm beauty. Women really screw up by putting their career first, and blowing off all of those nice guys for all of their plentiful, fertile, and attractive years. The end up with no one, or someone lame. A woman over 30 should try to find a man that wants to be taken care of, if she is succesful. A man that is younger might look to her as a mother-figure. But an older man would want a woman in her 20's at least; although, there could be exceptions due to the attractiveness of the older woman (perhaps she's a knock out physically, and has a sweet personality combined). Not too many of those. So thus is why a successful woman might have a problem. They are just not men when it comes down to it, and trade success for a decent man in the long run.

It's the sad end to a woman that puts her career first over the love of good men that might have wanted to settle down with her in her prime.