please share to me your thoughts.... thank you....
2007-09-16 14:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by not_a_geek 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, that's hard. It's the same, sort of, as asking, "What do you think about convertibles and Darwin's theory of relativity?" Even for women, the two topics could not be more diverse. (Women will protest, but they are just answering what they think people 'ought' to say.)
2007-09-16 15:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Having regular sex with a person who is attractive and with whom the sex is great, can cause a person to feel "in love" with the other person. This is not LOVE.
Feeling "in love" is a matter of hormones and pheromes. It is how our body and psyche are designed to work after a person is married. Love is much more than that. Love has to do some with the character and the values of the people involved.
Love (agape in Greek) is a decision based on the emotions, values, and character of the 2 people. To love someone is to DECIDE, that no matter what, you are committed to always act in a loving way, act in the best interest of the other person, and to ask for forgiveness when you fail to do this.
This kind of love is reflected in the "old fashioned" wedding vows. "I promise to love, honor, and cherish; in sickness and in health, for richer for poorer, in good times and bad; until death do we part." And then the couple stuck to and tried to live those vows, as best they could, and never gave up.
I learned that for a marriage to last, both people must have those values and and the character to live them out.
2007-09-16 22:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel extra-something special and really diferent to your guy or mate and cares for him much better than yourself. Sex? wow, when you have sex with this person you loved that's great.
How could you explain how it feels? It's God gift we have to enjoy with the one we loved.
2007-09-16 23:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love lasts forever... sex may only last up to 5 or 6 hours
2007-09-16 22:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't have sex without love; otherwise, it's no more than scratching an itch.
2007-09-17 01:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is truly best when it is with someone you love.
2007-09-16 22:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both are important as long as you understand the difference.
2007-09-16 22:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love you stick to one and sex you can used each other.
2007-09-16 22:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋