well i have been married for 8 years now and have no kids. my husband is a doctor and i am a scientist. by the time my hubby comes home i am already sleeping. we havent had sex for almost a year. what should we do?
2007-09-16 14:22:46 · 16 answers · asked by Arina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to make time sex is a big part of a marriage and it is important you need to make the time it has been way too long stay up later and pounce on him or take a day off and surprise him whatever you have to do you need to do it
2007-09-16 14:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut back your work hours , arrange holidays at the same time of the year and make time for each other , otherwise this marriage of convenience will be opening door's to something you dont want.
Dont use work as an excuse and if your both deliberately working extra long hours to avoid each other then this problem is much deeper then your revealing in which case nothing we say will help you , sit him down and explain you feel like your single and ask him if he's willing to do what I suggested above , do you even see each other on weekends?.I mean come on even doctor's and scientists have weekends off some times dont they ?.
2007-09-16 15:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whip out that calendar and schedule it. Use candlelight, music, perfume and seductive clothing to get both of you into the mood. Friday on the Today Show, the therapist said that if she sees couples who haven't had sex in 6 months or more, they need to be really intentional about seeking advice/help, etc. Take it slowly. Oh yeah, and take a nap and set the alarm so you are up when your man gets home! It will be so worth it. Remember how wonderful he once felt to you and anticipate that.
2007-09-16 14:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, lets face it. There must be another reason. You have to be spending time together. I would talk to him about it. I'd be worried that he was getting it some where else. If the 2 of you want to have sex you can find time . Where there's a will there's a way.
2007-09-16 14:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Desiderata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a problem? Are you sure NEITHER of you have had sex or is it just with each other? If there are no complaints, don't rock the boat. If either of you really was worried about sex, you would find time with someone to have sex. Make sure no one has kids outside of the marriage. Good luck.
2007-09-16 14:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
work it out for some free time together if you can. Take advantage of the quality not the quantity. If that doesn't work, then find someone on the side to fill the need. Good luck
2007-09-16 14:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make an appointment for some lab time.
2007-09-16 14:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a successful marriage needs sex
2007-09-16 14:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Looking 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take a vacation together and enjoy each other. No phones, no computers and so on. Just you two
2007-09-16 14:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't had sex in a year.. You might not be having sex but your husband is...
2007-09-16 14:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by whiteroses202004 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋