okay so i have this friend, the same one i asked a question about before, and she is on the jv cross country team[[lets say her name is Ann]] and my friend [[kate]]is on the vball team, and shes never played before, so me, my twin sister and my two other friendsall went to one of her first games. i had one of those friends give us all a ride to the game, which was in the school gym, so we knew exactly where to go and stuff. but Ann, who we are all close with, coudlnt go cause she had a xc meet. and she was mad cause we went to our too Kates vball game. And now Ann thinks we all like Kate more and that the friend that planned everything including the rides and such to go to Kates vball game is obsessing over her. She sent out an email saying that she has a home game coming up, and saying we've never been to any of her xc meet in all her years of running, and we HAVE been to at least one of her xc meets, and shes claimging we never have. its annoying and she thinks we dont like her.....
2007-09-16 12:47:19 · 3 answers · asked by deleted 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and we DO like her. I told Kate about it and she thinks its annoying too, and i shoudl just tell her ill try to get to one of her meets...and i mean, i WOULD go to one of her meets----but i dont know where it is, where to go? who would give me a ride cause my parents have work? and since its a cross country meet, we wont see her alot cause she wil be in the woods or where ever shes running. Does anyone know what i should say to her? Are we being bad friends? it kind of thinks jealous...but i dont know =/
okay well....good answers
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2007-09-16 12:47:57 · update #1
If you can make it to a meet, that would be nice, but she shouldn't think you like her less, because you could go to a game. This is a classic form of manipulation, and you don't have to fall for it. Ask her if she knows of anybody that is going, and see if she can get you a ride, if not do not stress over it. She will get over it, or she will lose alot of friends over something that stupid.
2007-09-16 12:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-05 16:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously jealous.
Talk to her and tell her that you are still her friend and that you like her.
If she denies it and shuts herself off, give her time. She needs to learn that her attitude sucks and that she'll never win anyone over like this.
2007-09-16 12:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋