What is the best way to tell my Husband it is all over. I will get half his wealth as he is very well off.
2007-09-16 10:56:26 · 53 answers · asked by Sarah G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey Sarah G gold digger
Go ahead do that,so karma will be happy to get you!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 14:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by zackie006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you mean "boy toy?" Your husband will be better off without you in his life, since you have broken the wedding vows you took. You do remember them, don't you? Run off with your youngster & enjoy the fun while you can because it won't last long. In a matter of time, your "boy toy" will move on to another rich old woman. Then, you'll know the hurt & betrayal you caused your husband. If your husband is smart, he'll change some things & you won't get a penny. That's the price you have to pay for committing adultery. Trust me, your husband already knows what you've been up to.
2007-09-16 11:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just how long do you really think this so-called boy-toy is going to stay with you when he can have practically anyone he wants and probably his own age. The thought of you getting a nice divorce settlement may appear intriguing to him but thats allyou got going for you unless this guy is one ugly dude and youre the best he can get. As you get older the more he will look for a younger replacement if your money holds out that long. Also if your husband has all this money, you can bet he will get a very good attorney who will see you get nothing from him, so dont count on the unknown factors in a divorce. But if youre this sure of everything then just tell him the whole picture as you will anyhow sooner or later. Good luck
2007-09-16 11:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This sort of sounds like a joke to me. But if you are serious, then so will I be...obviously what you are doing is wrong but you know that. I wouldn't be so sure about your toyboy either. Its okay when you are cheating but as an actual bf, it could be painfully boring once the sex thing wears off. My advice is that you leave your husband, make no mention of your young man (no need to crucify the poor husband) and get yourself an apartment of your liking. Live by yourself for a little while and have your gentleman caller. If you are discreet, then your ex husband willl never be any the wiser. As for half of his money - I assume that as you are his wife, its your money too so its bizarre to say you will get half 'his wealth' - you helped to get that wealth with him and sustain it so don't make it look as if he is doing you a favour. You are entitled to it. As I have said, leave if you must but keep it a light hearted affair with Mr 29!
2007-09-16 11:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You so do not shed the best light on yourself.
I hope you have thought long and hard about what you're planning on doing, because once it's done, theres no turning back because things with your boy-toy didn't work out in the end like you wanted things to.
There's no great way to break up with a person, and since you've been having an affair with another man, he'll probably fight to keep you from getting as much of his stuff as possible. The best thing to do, is to be as civil asyou can with him; tell him why you'd like to have a divorce, that you'd like to make things go as smooth as possible, and then you'll be done with it.
2007-09-16 11:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 46 with a 34 year old toyboy and it works very well. However I would be lying if I said there were times in the relationship when I don't become the mother figure, so just be aware of that.
Just be straight with your husband. And you don't have to take half of his wealth, you know. If you do take it, make sure it stays yours and doesn't end up as gifts for the toyboy.
Good luck!
2007-09-16 11:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you`re really broken up over this Eunice .
I`d say the best thing that could happen to your husband is for him to be rid of you ................. for good ! No doubt he`s thinking the same way as I`m sure he`s got some idea of what`s going on .
I`m sure he doesn`t want a Tramp for a wife . I`m sure you and your "toy-boy" will have a long and happy relationship . It might even last 3 weeks , or until your money runs out !
2007-09-16 11:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! I had affair with younger chap, now am suffering, as found out it was all a lie, and before he completely stopped all contact with me, he had already got his next victim in play! Oh yes he said all the right things, and made me feel soooooo good about myself, and talked about us being together. Then the last couple of years, he changed, and got very distant, I realise now that it was due to my circumstances changing, and I might be leaving my husband due to irriversable events. I think he got scared and didnt see him for dust!
Stop and think about what you have said too. Your hubby wealthy, and you will get half his wealth! You get it, toyboy will be entitled to half if you split up. and being an old sceptic, that is on his mind I think! A lot of men ( & women) will do anything(or anyone) if there is money around.
Think about it seriously before you do anything!
2007-09-16 12:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful, careful. It is going to come back around to bite you.
For starters, YOU confessed that the other man is just your boy toy. So that relationship will go the way they always do... nowhere. After the sex is used up, he will be on to younger or richer and you will have?
Your husband... HIS money. He must really really love you to PAY you for leaving him, especially while you are having an affair. I don't think you will get as much as you are hoping for, but, hey, give you lots of credit for trying!
2007-09-16 11:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by peggy m 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him you must not love him if you can go off with another man!!!!
it will hurt you both for now but you will get over it in time
sometimes if a woman or man has an affair they do not always get exactly half of the others money etc
hope you do what is right for you and good luck to you and what ever the future may hold
2007-09-16 11:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first since you are a woman you will get half of your husband's wealth and there's not much he can do. Laws truly favor women. Second realize what you are doing. You are trading a stable situation for sex / lust (so the sex better be amazing). I think you'll regret it, but simply tell him you do not want to be with him and your mind is made up....
2007-09-16 15:47:44 · answer #11 · answered by Jill L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋