They say "Love "is supposed to be unconditional.
That's fine and dandy ,but what about physical and sexual attraction?When your significant other turns into a BLIMP are you supposed to still be attracted to the lump of lard?
2007-09-16 10:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how can you say something so shallow so basically your saying you were only in love with the person you first met ...are you the same size and wieght and everything else ....bet your not either and it shouldnt matter your living in a shallow world ...how would you like it if it was being said about you ...
2007-09-16 11:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by pepsifan62003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love the person not what they look like ! If you don't love her now , then you didn't love her then. You could be nice and tell her in a nice way that she has gained some weight and start taking walks with her , I'm sure your not the same as when she met you... men tend to gain weight also as they get older and loose their hair, so think to yourself is she going to love you when that happens, if it is really love then yes she will. But, if your relationship is purely physical then she won't.And , by the way she also may have a medical condition that she doesn't know about that has caused her to gain the weight ,,, so have a little respect for your spouse !
2007-09-16 11:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Haley having such a closed mind towards what make's a real relationship will get you far in this body image made world , sheesh , you really need to go sit in between a bunch of these lumps of lard as you so rudely put it and find out for yourself what relationship's are and while your at it speak to their men and discover why they are with them and you will be surprised and possibly even shocked to realise that the physical attraction also pertains to the "larger bodied people".
Dont be so nieve and rude.
2007-09-16 10:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but you need to tell her that she's getting fat when she's still on time to lose the weight or do something about it. Don't wait until she weight 200 pounds. If she still doesn't do anything about it, let her go so a man who loves overweight women can make a her happy.
2007-09-16 10:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fat chicks need love too man. Be attracted to the beauty within, not the veneer.
2007-09-16 10:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to hit the treadmill everyday or you won't be able to 'rise' to the occasion, if you know what I mean.
You gotta lay down the law on that stuff, and it goes both ways.
2007-09-16 11:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but remember that may come back to bite you. I was one of those woman who you were talking about. All the while he telling his friend complaining about me...his boy was telling me i was beautiful anyway. It motivated me to lose 80 lbs.....ha ha....then i f***ed his friend.
2007-09-16 10:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by new life abundant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, she didn't just turn into anything...it takes time to gain weight, just like it takes time to lose it...didn't you notice anything happening??? If so, why did you say nothing??? If you talk to her like this, you can forget physical anything!!!
2007-09-16 10:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by missyj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're an ***-maybe you're not mr. chipendale either!
2007-09-16 11:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by bratt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋