repeatedly, that you don't even know what to do with all the pain?
One day your fine, then you hear something else and the next day your not?
2007-09-16 08:49:03 · 10 answers · asked by KillerHoney666 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
They were confronted -
that has nothing to do with the aftermath of pain
2007-09-16 08:53:37 · update #1
GeriGeri unless you know someones whole story and situation, then shame on you for passing judgement.
2007-09-16 09:02:15 · update #2
Oh yeah..Definately..Ashamed to say but it actually made me suicidal for a while...Took me a LONG time to crawl out of that hole, and no one ever knew.
2007-09-16 08:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Of Hearts 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've gone through that for years in my relationship with my Dad, it's been a long hard process but he's made a lot of progress and the pain comes less and less, with more time in between!! If it's somebody other than my family causing that kind of pain, they are out of my life but my relationship with my father is worth fighting to fix!! Good Luck
2007-09-16 16:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I didn't even know that I was being hurt until I let that person out of my life the pain that was left behind has reached my soul and turned my whole world inside out.
2007-09-16 16:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is confront that person and have it out and set urself free. Doing nothing only makes the pain stay around longer.
2007-09-16 15:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nora G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some very good friends here turned me on to a great book....Codependent No More by Melody Beattie....I know my healing from what you are describing was in those pages...I hope it is for you as well.
2007-09-16 15:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my mom.
she always jokingly call my brother the favourite. She may think its just a funny joke, but its not, i hate it.
If i ask for something (if my brother got it ) shell say no. Ill say "why" and shell say caus hes the favourite. I hate it. It makes me cry.
2007-09-16 15:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In fact, right now I feel it. I can't please my parents in any way enough, I really just don't know what to do. I wish I could just take my pain and throw it in the trash.
2007-09-16 16:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Candy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
I live by the old adage, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
If you let someone hurt you repeatedly then shame on you.
2007-09-16 15:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-09-16 15:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.But he doesn't know how much he hurt me.
2007-09-16 16:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋