I am a 24 yr old guy. From long back I knew that I get attracted to guys. But since few months I even feel like having sex with gals. I am attracted to them too. It really depends, sometimes I dont like gals at all but at times I do :(
It automatically changes...Am I a gay? Can I get married? I am really in confusion. Pls help me. Pls.
2007-09-16 08:16:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
bisexual i'd say =]
2007-09-16 10:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ kayla ☼ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I get where you're coming from and you are most likely bisexual. You'll just get even more confused thinking that its what society is telling you or its the way you've been brought up. It's your life so live it the way YOU want to. I'm the same way but I'm not emotionally attracted to guys. It's not the way I was brought up but I've just always liked girls emotionally and physically. I've only been attracted to guys physically. I don't really feel any affection to any guy or wish to be in a relationship with them. I know because I've liked this girl for the longest time and you can say I'm sprung on her. I've even wrote a poem about her and it sucks just seeing the person you really like go wtih someone else. ='[ Yea I know I need to get over it. ha
2007-09-16 10:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as though you are gay, if you like the opposite sex as well. You may well be bisexual. Can you get married? That depends on who you plan to marry. Some women would be really upset to think their husband would want to have sex with a man. So that's something you would have to be really open about - but you should probably get some counselling before you take a step as drastic as marriage.
And if you are 'bi' you are aware that you have to use protection at ALL times, to protect your partners, of whatever sex, from sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-09-16 08:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lot easier not to be gay in life. I would pray about it, accept the fact your attracted to men and have fine relationships that don't include sex. Your relationships should not include sex or be about sex. Try to have meaningful relationships till your ready to commit. This society is so hedinistic, young people like yourself lose their way before they have time to form life values. The fact your confused tells me your backround may also be confusing. Your a very astute person and I hope you consider a chrisitan perspective before you close the door to it. My brother ia very successful, but his gay life style is very lonely and I know if he could change it he would, thats why I have great compassion for gay people. Another gay cousin is dying of aids, a wealthy fellow never thought he'd get it. Life requires thought, they don't teach that anymore. You blink without thinking, when your young---when your older, you say if only I'd took more time to consider maybe I'd taken a different road. Personally ask Christ to lead your decisions, you'll never regret it.
2007-09-16 08:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna guess you're gay, just because I've always done the same thing. I used to hope that it would finally blossom into full-fledged heterosexuality, but it never did. I like the female form, but it never progressed to me being attracted to women emotionally, the way I hoped it would. I would advise against getting married until you're sure you're no longer attracted to guys, or at least until you find a woman who can deal with it--neither of which is very likely to happen. Best of luck!
2007-09-16 08:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds bisexual. You can get married. If you are attracted to men also while married to a woman is just like a straight guy married to a woman attracted to other girls, just dont put thoughts into actions.
2007-09-16 08:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on you. I know that everyone in this world has thought of the same sex atleast a couple of times in that type of way but it doesn't necessarily mean that they roll that way. You could just be curious. The only one who knows the answer is you. Who do you see having a more loving relationship with?
2007-09-16 08:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Light/Dark Thinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are a gay cause u attracted with guys and u can get married with a guy its ur decision if u will do if u will get married if the guy like to get married to u
2007-09-16 08:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just your thought of you liking guys does make you gay. you could be bi. i have all kind of gay friends they say they are confused for a while but then realize that they are gay and they think they like girls because thats what they were sort of taught to do. they say bisexuals are just confused guys on a quest for happiness in society try to fit in.
2007-09-16 08:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Alix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually attracted to both sexes you are bisexual. You can get married, anybody can get married. Who ever your partner is, you should be honest with them about your feelings.
2007-09-16 08:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by fgdhfghr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bi-sexual. Many bi-sexuals have a heterosexual relationship/marriage but have a homosexual affair with another partner on the side. This is becoming more and more common so I'd say, go for it if you found someone speical whether its a guy or lady.
2007-09-16 08:19:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋