The old "momentum" versus "nothing to lose" debate.
2007-09-16 06:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by Philly Joe Remarkable 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am a freak when Im angry - it take quite a bit to rattle my cage... but when I snap I actually loose my vision, it's insane! I have no confidence issues then, I just set my sights on the goal and charge at it...
Hardly ever happens since I flew the nest and got a grip of reality but very rarely it can happen and there is just no reasoning with me. I've NEVER been like that with my B/F or friends they couldn't make me that mad.
Other than that I have next to no confidence...
2007-09-16 07:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fiona F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happiness in my opinion is part of confidence just as anger is part of resentment , i have learnt alot about confidence theese past few years and some of the main things i have learnt are YOU ARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF! Loving and accepting ourselves is THE MOST CRITICAL FACTOR in experiencing joy,happiness, and success in life. When you really love yourself and you really love other people, you find that life is really an incredible journey where things flow, and no matter what happens you always find a way to enjoy yourself and you feel fulfilled. You MUST love yourself completely.
This determines your STANDARDS for what you are willing to accept or settle for. It determines how well you treat your body and your health, how much money you feel you deserve to earn or feel you can make, your belief in whether you can achieve your goals, how much others RESPECT you and how they treat you, and even whether people like you and want to be around you. People love being around confident people. You see, confident people do not feel the need to judge you or tear you down in order to elevate their own self-worth. They radiate a positive energy. You feel safe around them. You need to consistently and confidently take action to move towards your goals, and towards your ultimate destiny. People who lack in confidence often get ‘stuck’. So you see, your entire DESTINY is shaped by your degree of confidence. True self-confidence comes from an absolute sense of certainty deep within, that you are able to handle anything life throws your way. Truly confident people exude calm, control, power, certainty. They care about people, and they make people feel good when they are around them.They never brag – after all, actions speak louder than words. People who brag are just masking their insecurities. People have varying degrees of confidence depending on what activity they are performing. For example, someone might be totally confident in performing a piano concert, or driving a car, but feel totally inadequate at a new job they’ve started, or at flirting with members of the opposite sex. People with Total Self-Confidence, though, have complete belief in themselves. They never ask themselves “Can I really do this? What if this doesn’t work out? Am I good enough to pull it off?” They know that if they really want something, and they are committed to getting it, it will happen. They know that it’s just a question of time until they’ve mastered the skills and knowledge to make whatever they want a reality
2007-09-17 10:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by insenergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm definitely more confident when I'm happy, when I'm sad it's usually because my old wounds and fears are haunting me!!
2007-09-16 13:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely when i'm happy. when i'm sad, i have very little motivation to do anything let alone confidence that i could do it.
2007-09-16 13:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Manhattan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have much either way, but it's probably that I have more when I am happy. I don't seem to be happy very often...
2007-09-16 13:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I'm happy.
2007-09-16 14:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say when I'm happy.
2007-09-16 14:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋