don't get offended... but what do gay/ lesbien people see in each other?

Question

i know you can love someone who is your sex... but idk about being IN love with them. wat is the attraction? both physical and emotional.

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Answer 1

It seems impossible to imagine, for me, that I could be attracted in any way to a woman. I love my female friends dearly, but there is no possible way to get me to have any sexual interaction with them. Think of your situation. Would you be able to fall in love with a woman? Probably not. It's just as easy for us to fall in love with our same sex as it is for you to fall for men. And, for gays, guys have fluffable hair and solid bodies to hug. Women... not so much. But that's just me.

Answer 2

the reality is that the Bible could be translated from its unique language into cutting-edge English hundreds of diverse procedures. i think of that the area approximately homosexuality very practically continuously remains an analogous, because of the fact that's any such deep rooted have self belief that no person needs to clutter with it. on the internet, I even have considered the memories of Sodom and Gommorah translated in procedures that make homosexuality no longer the sin, yet something else. Do a google seek and you're able to be able to discover it. As for being married, that's because of the fact of conservatives. they choose all and sundry to maintain on with their policies, despite if or no longer they like it or no longer. they choose administration of unquestionably all and sundry and their on an familiar basis movements. If the alternative became quite as much as them, homosexuality could be against the regulation all together and is additionally a capital crime. It should not be against the regulation because of the fact, assuming you reside interior the U.S., our shape isn't based on the Bible and you may't have freedom of religion if there are regulations based off of the Bible. it is so straight forward as that! Why ought to a Buddhist have a Christian regulation compelled on them? Likewise, if there have been regulations that prohibited any Christian practices, they could all circulate nuts! additionally, nature is a humorous element. the international is an extremely populated place now. lots of the international is even ravenous to loss of existence. according to danger homosexuality is nature's way of slowing down or attempting to circumvent overpopulation.

Answer 3

I would imagine that gay/lesbian people have the same wants and desires that you have. The only difference is that they are attracted to the same sex. They fall in love and want to be loved the same as any heterosexual person wants. What makes you think that it is that much different? I believe that every person wants to find someone to share their life with; someone they passionately love and who loves them in return; they want to be held and loved both physically and emotionally. They have the same heartaches and desires that you do. The only thing that may be different is that they have compassion for others who are considered different from the mainstream. They hurt when people attack them and reject them. You do not have to understand them or even try, but it would be nice if you could find a place in your heart to know that there are others who live a different lifestyle than yours and that they deserve to be loved and find love without all the judgement and negativity that they are exposed to.

Answer 4

'Ya know we want the same things the straight people do. We want someone to love, to be there for us and to keep us company, just like the straight folks do. Gay sex may be a little different to a lot of straight folks, but the rest of it is just the same.

Answer 5

It is the same attraction a man has for a woman and visa/versa. We have the same feelings as anyone else does. That is like asking... what does a person see in a white person, or a black person, or an oriental, or an indian, or???????????? We all love who ever we love. Does it really matter who we are or what we are? As long as no one pushes thier lifestyle on me, I am ok with anyone loving another person.

Answer 6

Physcially: Men actually make very good eye candy for other men, we're supposedly the more visually oriented gender and the male body is very beautiful, there's a lot to look at if the guy is in good shape.

Emotionally: Wow, I don't know how to describe it, the mixture of tough and tender in a man's soul can be so beautiful and almost frightening at times, like nature or the night sky.

Answer 7

There is the same attractions as men and women have for another another. Just for some it is in a male and others a female.... Just because people are of the same sex does not mean they can not LOVE one another to the full extent that men and women have love for one another.

Answer 8

Yep, the attraction is both physical and emotional, just as with straight couples.

Answer 9

That's a good question... I'm gay and its hard for me to answer. I could say something cheezy, like:

I like guys (both as friends and lovers) because its easier to be "on the same page" with a guy (for the most part).

I never really understand what women are talking about (except when it comes to relationships). Also, women react so adversely to everything... guys (or the guys I like) tend to be more calm...

But that really doesn't make sense because there are women who would fit those descriptions.

A guy is just nice to be around...

Answer 10

it's the same for us as it is for straight people. a combination of things, not just physical, but also emotional. and how much we have in common, how well we get along....
...don't try so hard to understand. maybe if you knew people who were LGBT you would.