There are people who use others because they have something in mind that may not be kosher and it is rather selfish and taking an unfair advantage and there are people who use people because they are the best at what they do and they desire the best for themselves and will take nothing less than the best. Finally there are people who use others because they want to make someone else jealous and that is cruel because to use someone in that way does not take into consideration the person being used and the person who is the aim of the project in the first place. I guess that is how some people believe they can win at love this way but I think they are being deceptive and eventually in deceiving others they deceive themselves and cause great hurt for all involved.
2007-09-16 04:49:48
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answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7
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It sucks & its cruel but like some people "you will get no where with out steeping all over others". So far I haven't had to do that I am where I am because I worked my *** off & always do things to the best of my ability luckly now I have a chance to slack off because I have my husband to help out.
2007-09-16 04:34:12
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answered by ****Janina_Be_Rockin 3
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Horrible people. It's dishonest and cruel. You can't treat people that way. They'll get what's coming to them eventually.
2007-09-16 04:40:18
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answered by Miss T 7
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They aren't going to be able to make and keep good friends.
I have a brother like that and nobody wants anything to do with him.
2007-09-16 04:34:46
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answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7
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Check this out, you won't believe it. THEY MAKE IT REALLY HARD TO MAKE FRIENDS!I'm starting to HATE them, which is very out of character for me, but I'm nice & giving to a FAULT. I guess its the nurse in me. I feel like I have to help everyone. But after what JUST happend to me I'm changing. I'm going to stop being a yes person to EVERYBODY and just help the people who are good to me also. This girl I met 2 years ago & the first time I let her in my house she stole from me & admitted it but wouldn't give it back. Being the person I am I didn't call the police but I should have cause then I found out she was a BAD crack user. So 2 months ago she came to me & paid me for what she stole and apologized & told me that she was clean & away from the person who got her on it, which I'd been hearing from alot of other people so I believed it and SLOWLY let her back in my life. I helped her with money here & there cause she had no job & left that guy with nothing but the clothes on her back, plus she was looking for a job. So I was willing to help her since it seemed like she was trying to help herself. Then I started catching her in little lies, then big lies, AND IT WAS ALL STUFF SHE DIDN'T EVEN HAVE TO LIE TO ME ABOUT!! When I would confront her she'd lie some more. So I told her no more. She begged for 1 more chance & stupid me I gave it to her, and she repaid me by stealing my roomates med's & the ONLY jewelry my mother EVER gave me & when I called her about it she laughed about getting over on me again. And I spent about $150 dollars on her in 2 months, cigaretts, food, phone cards ETC & I found out she NEVER was looking for a job. I don't care about getting anything back but the jewelry. It's SILVER! What can you get for that? NOTHING. My mom never gave me anything my whole 30 years but that & that's all I want but she won't give it back. I think this time I have to call the police which I hate to do to anybody, especially since she is on probation and if she gets in any kind of trouble she goes to prision for a year. But come on, I was so good to her, I gave her a million and one rides, I was a TRUE friend and she USED me hard.
2007-09-16 05:16:49
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answered by Kristy 4
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Can't stand "players" really! It's horrible that they're so many out there too!
2007-09-16 04:34:18
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answered by Anonymous
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it's cruel and manipulative. they should have it happen to them someday and see how they like it.
2007-09-16 04:32:27
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answered by Aeon 3
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Despicable...simple as that!!!
2007-09-16 04:35:53
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answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7
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