Pregnant and confused by the dates..!!?

Question

A girl I was seeing for a while has turned out to be pregnant.. The last times I slept with her was around the 4th July and I'm 100% sure on the 15th July.. She then moved to a different country. She told me her last period was 19th July. She has morning sickness and has returned a positive test.. Would the fact that she had a period on the 19th July not suggest that she concieved somewhere around August 2nd ( assuming a 28day cycle )....???

I am totally confused, so I can understand if anyone has problems understanding the question.

Tensions are slighly high between us at the moment because we dont exactly agree on the outcome of the pregnancy... She is not too keen on keeping the child..

Funny, I offered to pay a flight for her and put her up while she is here to come and see me so that we could talk things over face to face and get her checked out by the doctor to make sure all is ok..

I know this sounds horrible, but I hope to god its not mine because I cant bare the thoughts of my child being terminated.

Her body, her choice - - - but its not just her child.. and im about a 1000 miles away..

Answer 1

Honestly, you are correct.
If it was a very light, pinkish color period on the 19th you may indeed be a father of that baby. If it was heavy and dark red blood, then hahaha you're not the father:)
Just ask her. If you had sex on the 4th that could be the day she conceived, on the 15th I doubt it, it is too close to her period.
I hope you get the results you want.

Answer 2

If it was in fact a period that she had on the 19th of July then yes, she would have to have conceived the child after her period. However, there is something called implantation bleeding which some people make the mistake of thinking it's an actual period. I did. If it was in fact implantation bleeding on the 19th, then the baby is yours. However, if it was her period on the 19th then I would say your chances of fatherhood are slim to none, granted I'm not a medical person of any sort so I could be way wrong, but as far as I know, if you have your period then you are not pregnant. Anyway, best of luck with whatever the outcome is.

Answer 3

You are not the father unless her period on July 19 was not a real period. You can't conceive and then have your period four days later. It doesn't work that way. So, yes, you are right, she conceived sometime in late July/early August, IF she is sure she had a period and it wasn't some other kind of bleeding (sometimes women bleed in pregnancy but it's not the same as their period because they are not shedding their uterine lining).

I'm sorry that you are disagreeing about what to do about the child. That's a tough situation.

Good luck to you and her.

Answer 4

Your theory date would be everywhere between might 20 and June a million. under the main perfect situations, sperm can stay interior the female's physique everywhere between 5 to 7 days. The sperm from the guy on the 20 th might have lived on your physique until the twenty seventh on the latest, and the sperm from the guy on the 24/twenty 5th might have lived interior you until June 1st. At every time between those time frames, the two set of sperm might have penetrated the liner of the egg wall. there is not any way for a doctor to precisely state once you conceived. The due date and theory dates are estimates based on the dimensions of the toddler interior the womb. regrettably, this means you need to have conceived by using the two guy. the only way which you would be able to renowned for beneficial is a DNA attempt. Sorry.

Answer 5

The only way that child would be yours is if that period she had on the 19th of July was implantation bleeding. Other than that the baby is not yours. Why does she not want to keep the baby? Sounds like she has something to hide and is afraid you'll want a DNA test done (I definantly would want one).

Answer 6

If you had sex before July 19th and she did get her period July 19 then if she is pregnant then it is not yours.

Not that I want to give you too much info but I got pregnant around July 4 and I am at 13 weeks now............ so she must have gotten pregnant after you.

Answer 7

well basically I don't think it's your child, unless her period was a very light one and wasn't really a period at all, I have heard of women getting their period when they're pregnant but I really doubt that this is your baby but if it is and you want the baby there are things you can do to prevent her from aborting it. like filing for custody of the unborn child. I think if one parent wants the child whether the mom does or not that the baby should be born. its her body but your baby she's killing and any wanted baby should be given a chance for life.

I'm sorry that you have to deal with all of this that sucks but maybe you'll think twice about using protection and what forms of protection you use.

Answer 8

i would say you are not the father, it is very possible that it is yours, i know lots of women who have had their periods for the first 6 months of their pregnancies.

also i also didn't know that i was preg the first month for i didn't know what implantation is. so it is very likely that she might have confused her period with implant ion. the line is very thin unless if you really really know.


the best is to go for a scan as it will show how old the fetus is and you can calculate from there.

good luck

Answer 9

hi.im not 100% sure but what i do know is that you can be pregnant whilst on your period.you are both mature enough to make a baby you both have to be willing to make a descion.try to talk to her and explain how you really feel about it. good luck.

Answer 10

I wish you the best in this situation and hope you dont get too involved or get hurt because I dont think its yours if she is really pregnant at all.