How to Give a Women an Orgasism ?

Question

me and my girl have been together for 5 m and just told me has never experienced an orgasam so could somone please help me i don't even know where to begin.

Answer 1

First off, she has to know what gets her right. If she masturbates, then she should know. If she doesn't masturbate, I would think that that is part of your problem, right there.

Secondly, she has to be comfy with you - comfy enough to be able to let go of what is happening and focus on herself, and let herself go with the pleasure.

If she is comfy, could you talk her into playing with herself while you work it softly from behind, or lie underneath her? This would be a nice in-between step - she gets to have an orgasm with you - and then later you can work on giving her one.

It seems to me the second orgasm comes easier than the first. So I like to go down, and spend a fair bit of time down there, just making out with HER. (Soft tongue, gentle kissing, get a nice seal, and rythmically, gently suck. None of that ridiculous porn-star style stuff.) Once again, though, she has to be comfy with this, or it is pointless. And the best way to get her to be comfy is to tell her that you really enjoy it. (And yes, I do.)

Finally, it comes down to rythm and pressure. You gotta go slow, keep an even pace, and make sure there is a rythmic, riding, gentle pressure exerted on the general clit area.

In the end, though, it is 90% in her head.

Answer 2

The best thing you can do is to start by asking her what feels good. She probably masturbates.

Women orgasm from clitoral stimulation usually and most women can't orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. That does Not mean that we don't enjoy vaginal intercourse just that if we want to get off it than just that by itself usually won't do it. It generally involves touching or licking the clitoris (which is at the top..ask her to put your hand there).

Vaginal lips are sensitive too and the vagina from the opening to maybe 2 inches. Breasts are very sensitive and many women orgasm from having their nipples touched and kissed and licked.

I'm not sure how to explain the g-spot to a guy but it is up inside the vagina maybe 3 inches on the front side behind the pubic bone and before the cervix. But as you can see there is more than one way to orgasm.

But again if you want to give your girlfriend pleasure just ask her what she likes when you are with her. Just take your time and listen and go with a gently steady pressing and rhythm.

Hope this helps..best wishes and good luck :)

Edit Juan G is giving very good advice and I gave him a thumbs up :)

Answer 3

Ask her what she likes... if she masturbates at all, she should know. If she hasn't, or is too embarrassed, you can do some research on your own and try out different techniques. If nothing you try works, then you can try using a vibrator on her... that should do the trick. The most important thing is that she communicates to you what feels good and what doesn't.

Answer 4

From a woman. You have to find her Gspot. You will have to research and than research on her. It will take some time but it will be worth your while. You will love it just as she will. Here is a sample website for you to read. Toys may also help.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

You should check out some articles at iVillage.com. I think you will find it all very enlightening.

Also, you should ask her what she likes, what she wants. If she ever, you know, alone, what does it for her then?

Best of luck to you both!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

maybe you could try just rubbing her 'down there' or giving her oral untill she orgasms... maybe even buy a book on great sex, or go on the net and find ways. she needs to experiment with herself aswell.

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