immature because I didn't want to talk to my ex? Were both married and I don't see the need in having a conversation with him. He also thinks I still have feelings for him. I spoke once in the last few years...
2007-09-15 18:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by sexyascanbe! 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
never married to him and no kids
2007-09-15 18:56:31 · update #1
You don't have to account to him whatever you do. If he keeps insisting you have feelings for him, tell him to get a life, or better still, if he harasses you, tell his spouse. That'll teach him.
2007-09-15 19:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by DaDancer:D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that your EX is the one that's calling you "immature", well, who cares what he thinks?? If you are worried about him calling you that, then that would leave one to think that MAYBE you DO care about what he thinks of you still, or MAYBE you still have to mature a little bit....all I'm trying to say is that this SHOULDN'T be bothering you....unless you believe that there is some truth in what he is saying.
P.S. How would you know that he thinks you are immature and still like him if you haven't spoken to him in a few years?? Has a mutual friend told you this? If so, tell that person that you would rather not know what he says or does because you've moved on (happily) and every time his name comes up it pisses you off, so you'd rather not 'go there'. Any true friend should understand and respect that. And YOU should understand that if you don't give a sh!t about him, then prove it by not giving a sh!t about what he thinks...
(sorry if I sound harsh - not trying to be rude!)
2007-09-15 19:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by K A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult with ex's. Some people just find it too difficult, to see them, after a relationship. Also he should consider his wife and your husband may not appreciate the two of you 'chatting', If he's giving you crap, calling you immature, and is contacting you, I think that HE still has feelings for you, and he is acting them out in an immature way.
I don't think your the immature one, he is. You want to move on and that's fine, and he needs to move on as well.
2007-09-15 19:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by AmKariz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that he thinks you have feelings for him if you never talk to him? Have other people told you that? Your right to stay away from him and not immature in the slightest , he has no bearing in your life anymore and I doubt your current husband would enjoy your talking to an ex boyfriend anyway. So, your doing the exact right thing!!!
2007-09-15 19:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity is lacking the wisdom or emotional development usually associated with adults. They feel that you can't deal with being around your ex because you still love him, and if you didn't really care you wouldn't try so hard to stay away from him. Maturity would come as to being even closer as exs as you was together. It might be weird but that's it.
2007-09-15 19:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by aquarius7air 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would appear that he's not very happy in his marriage, otherwise he wouldn't be doing the things he is doing.
You have cut your strings with him and are married to another man. If he continues this drivel, tell your husband and I'm sure he'll set the man straight.
If, in fact, you are happy in your marriage, this man has no place in your life.
2007-09-15 19:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cranky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old friend and time can't be forgotten
2007-09-15 19:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋