Well I'm 17 and I'm a virgin, and I really want to have sex with someone, but then I want to wait until I'm married, what do I do.
2007-09-15 16:47:13 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
DONT RUSH IT, FOLLOW YOUR HEART INTO THE ARMS OF THE ONE YOU LOVE!!
2007-09-15 16:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's a natural urge, that's what bring people together. But there is no rush to explore it.
The fact that your a virgin, says that you've had a moral upbringing. It has served you well.
That fact you want to wait till your married, says that you want the act to be special for the two of you.
To just find someone to do it with sort of cheapens the whole thing doesn't it.
The guys might line up around the block when word of an easy piece gets out. But each additional partner makes the act even cheaper, with little meaning once you decide to marry.
Remember there is no rush and urge will still be there most of your life!
2007-09-15 17:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate. Unless of course you've been in a relationship for a long time with someone who you know really loves you, and you love him also, where you are sure that neither of you have STD's and you are on a hormonal form of birth control, as well as condoms. Condoms are your friends. You don't want to regret it later on if you didn't chose the right person to have your first time with, and you want to make sure that it is special, so I think that you should wait until you're married, or at least until you're older. I'm almost 16 and I had sex for the first time last April and I felt really bad about it afterwards, not because of the person I had sex with (we're still going out), just because I wasn't ready and it wasn't the right time. There is no rush, and plenty of time for sex. Babies are not good at our age and STDs are never good. Go here: http://www.greattowait.com/
2007-09-15 16:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 17 too and a virgin. But wait until your married! That's what I am going to do.
2007-09-19 14:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
it's your hormones raging and you are blossoming and becoming a woman. try to fight the urge, because you want to be ready. you control your body, so don't let your body control you.
1. you could get an STD or get pregnant.
2. do some research. read about sex, stds and the turmoils of teenage mothers. learn about what has no cures and the lifestyle you need to give up if your were a mom.
3. think about other things like college. prepare for you SATs or join a team to burn off some of your energy.
what i'm trying to say is...once you lose your virginity, it's gone. it's the one thing you can't get back, so you should think it through and share the moment w/ someone special. it could be cliche and a drunken prom night regret, or it could be planned and special.
there is no rush. trust me...nothing is hotter than a mid 20's virgin. no guy wants to marry the slut who's been around...
patience...
2007-09-15 16:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also wanted to have sex when I was young...and I did! I didn't marry the first person I had sex with. I wish I had waited! I am now 44 years old and when I look back I am really sorry I had sex at such an early age! I was 17! Please think about this and don't jump into anything you will regret later!
2007-09-15 16:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by meme k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at the age when most people want to have sex. If you didn't want to have sex you wouldn't be human. You are still young, so, it's really up to you if you want to wait until you are married. However, in today's society more and more people aren't getting married until they are in their late 20's on up till their 40's. Think about it, do you really want to wait that long?
2007-09-15 16:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wanting to have sex is a natural human feeling. Repressing your sexuality and being disciplined enough to wait for marriage are two different things. Repressing your sexuality is not a good thing because it can lead to sexual problems in the fututre because we as human beings are made to be sexual. You have to decide if you want to wait until you're married, and if you don't try not to beat yourself up about it. The most important thing is that you wait until you're ready and do it with someone who you care for.
2007-09-15 16:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Casey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hun, I was in THE SAME situation... I wanted to wait too. Its hard when the time comes. I stood by my beliefs of waiting til i was married so strongly, and i got weak. My first time was a year ago. I love who im with so much, but I also kind of regret it. It just wont be the same as it would have if you waited to get married first. I would def. hold off if you can. :-) but yes, it is very natural to have that desire.
2007-09-15 16:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush on having sex, because in the end it is not even worth it, plus it is natural to have those feelings at your age just wait till the right boy or man comes your way, and the advice you got from the idiot that said take it up the butt don listen to that fool.
2007-09-15 16:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Texasmom26/30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is NOT normal. Your only 17.. wait for another year, 18 is the legal age of marriage. I suggest you wait until you are married, or become a pornstar if you really are that desperate
2007-09-15 16:55:19 · answer #11 · answered by occultdestroyer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋