Help???!!!!?

Question

okay the truth is I'm actually 12 years old but I'm falling in love with my friend and I don't know if she's gay or not?
And if she is what do I do??

ok I've liked this girl since like third grade and well she touches my hands a lot and stands really close to me if we are together, and I was also wondering if there are any clues to figuring out if a person is gay or not?

Answer 1

12? Well, Maddie, that's a little young to be "titling" yourself or your friend.
Spend time together, if she has those kind of feelings, eventually they will come to the surface.
If not, you still have a friend....you've got lots of time ahead of you

Answer 2

Well, do you mind first of all if I give you some advice? Thank you. No, I'm not attempting in any way to be a jerk by this either. I would give myself the time to grow a few years older first off BEFORE I made any moves here. Now, as best friends go, you never truly know what they may or may not feel for you. I can clearly remember what it was like for me at 12 years of age. Hormone changes, learning to shave(my dad hated me using his electric, so he got me my own for Christmas), learning what I wanted to study, etcetera. For me, it wasn't until I was about fifteen that I had an idea as to what I was and wasn't feeling for different people. It wasn't until a few years later that I learned that sometimes what I thought were true feelings for someone were just flights of fancy and lust brought about by the moment or by alcohol(that's the main reason I only drink one drink whenever I go out for any event any more). Forgive me, I digress. As for your friend, this is a delicate time for the both of you. Both of you are young and aproaching young woman-hood. Soon enough you'll be dealing with the world and all those issues that come with that. Take into account BEFORE you speak to her about your feelings for her what she may or may not say. Be prepared for the possibilitiy that BOTH your and her parents may find this relationshiop that you are proposing as VERY unexeptable. Your friend may aslo find your presence (at this stage of her life considering both of your ages) after you speak to her about your feelings for her highly undesirable. Then of course, after you've spoken to her, you WILL suddenly be faced with Junior High AND High School society and its prejudices towards you (and inderectly your friend as well) in a large way. If your friend has similar feelings for you, then G-D bless you both! Take you time, haste does truly make waste. When you both turn eighteen, no one can legally stop either of you from anything. If she doesn't, yet she still loves you as a friend, then again, you are blessed. Not many friends would willing stand by you AND call you frined to every one elses face.

Answer 3

Do things that will allow you to know the truth. Try going to a romance movie. It works for some people.

Answer 4

umm try just playing around and ask her do you think we would make a good couple but if she says hell no or something like that then youll know that shes not

but if she is tell her how you feel(without
the love part) just tell her you kind of like her that maybe yall should go steady to see what happens that could help

Answer 5

i don't like it when ppl say were to young to fall in love or know if were gay or not but in this situation id say its puppy love but still love nether the less